Help with snoopy neighbors...

I just moved into a great new duplex and my neighbor moved in 2 weeks ago. She is threatening me and even called the police. I have deleted all pics that could even possibly show part of my face (as all my pics don't show all of my face). She has my escort number and website. I am very scared and don't know what I should do. I plan to delete all emails. What else do I need to do?
Move and don't work from home.
Unique_Carpenter's Avatar
P,
I doubt that your neighbor will stop regardless of whatever truce thing is tried. Whether she's a bible thumper or some other type of do-gooder really doesn't matter. It's a nimby thing (not in my back yard) that she's probably pitching a hissy about.
She's simply not going to stop, so you really do need to plan on finding another place. Btw, if she starts bitching at landlord, the same result.
Move and don't work from home

But more importantly how did this bible thumper find out details about your provider world?
Become a plumber and fix the leaks
First. Absolutely stop working for home. The police will probably listen to her and set up a sting since you are in a structure attached to her in a private neighborhood, running a business. It's probably a code violation even if no pay for play is involved.

Second, you probably need to move.

Third, you need a totally different website (or don't have one at all).

Fourth, next time, move somewhere that is less obvious and have a cover story. Like you sell custom shirts and guys come to your place to get measured. You're doing a research study. You date a bunch off match.com. Blah blah blah

Good luck This sucks.
Invite your brother to come eat supper every weekend .
If the cops show up, ask them why you can No have family over for supper.
TinMan's Avatar
All the above. Only use your home for a few regulars. Much less likely to draw attention, and you’ll still save some money on incalls.
Cheesecake7's Avatar
I agree with all of the above. Your neighbor is obviously some psychopathic asshole that will do whatever it takes to give you grief. This is much worse than a leaking roof....MOVE!

Or alternatively, make her life miserable by "leading a virtuous life" (no escorts to your home) but playing Satanic Rock music at 3 am, leaving a dead rat at her door....(you get the point) and have some fun at her expense.
Working in a duplex - or even a house - is just never a good idea. Too much foot traffic. They’re either going to think you’re a hooker or dealing drugs or both. Apartments are way less conspicuous, especially if you install a wireless doorbell (knocking draws attention).
dreamvacationdates's Avatar
Well if you have a lot of traffic at all different hours by lots of different people you're going to draw negative attention.
I knew a new provider in San Diego, just getting started. She was working out of a 5th wheel in a trailer park. I warned her it was not a good situation, she didn't heed my advice. She was an older woman 40s and doing brisk business.
Didn't here from her for a few days, she was locked up. busted for providing. She was freaked the fuck out. Neighbors force LE's hand to bust you, if LE doesn't they go the city council or the chief.
Heed the advice above, move out or start doing out calls.
StephanieHepburn's Avatar
i live in a gated community, this is why i am mostly out call only, to avoid situations like this