Does your interest in kink come and go?

Sometimes I can't get my eyes away from another realm and I can't stop thinking about trannies and strapon sex etc. I spend a lot of time looking at men in pain and divine bitches. Other times, I just find myself jerking off to the classics, boy girl porno and wanting a really good vanilla session.

Obviously, I am not going to be getting into a BDSM lifestyle thing (married!), but I like to take a walk on the wild side with Lou Reed. What does that make me? Am I looked down upon by the lifestyle folks? Do any of you have this on again off again interest in the kinky side?

Hugs

IMHO, there is no looking down. I enjoy vanilla as well as D/S and would not have it any other way. Variety.

I'm pretty much 95% kink oriented. WHICH kink changes, but I'm mostly in a kink mood. With the exception of extended BBBJ, which I will take any way I can get.
Then again, I've been that way my whole life. What works for me may not work for you, and many people like to flirt with danger and jump off the high dive, while others are bungie jumping and parachuting every weekend. Both are having fun, both are doing what is right for them. Have fun whatever you do!

If I may quote Beavis and Butthead, "You gotta have stuff that sucks to have stuff that's cool."

Paraphrasing this, you have to have the tamer stuff to make the other stuff kinky.

I think my kink comes and goes. My bondage fetish is always present i find theres def something about the ropes and restriction that gets me going. I always back out cause im so fair and tiny im sure to bruise easily. most of the time i get turned on just ooking at my strap on turns me on maybe its the thought of the straps wrap around my legs really tight. Who knows. I find it pretty normal.

Kink is Kool in any shape or form.........Some days its full force hard core, some days its light and playful..............To each his own and as long as your having fun.................

I am ALWAYS ready to play with a kinky male sub.
Bring it, babies.

I think we all have our kinky desires that are put on hold for what ever reason [being married] but they never really go away. I also think that anyone who enjoys kink and takes a walk on the wild side would never look down upon someone who enjoys the kink, at least I don't.....Enjoy the Kink.....

Cum

It comes and goes. There are times I am turned off by things that turned me on 2 days prior. And vice versa.

I seem to really get into some kink and later find it less fascinating, or a turn off, then some time later I am into it again.

I totally understand. Mine comes and goes pretty drastically. I remember up until last year I didn't even like giving oral.

I also got horrible panic attacks if a guy talked dirty to me or called me any derogatory names. Then I hooked up with a friend and for some reason, all the things I hated became intensely satisfying to me. For the most part, its pretty specific to him, like if anyone else wanted me to gag so hard on their d*ck that I threw up while they called me a dirty f*cking whore I'd probably punch them in the throat, but when he does it, it totally turns me on.

F*cking Ridiculous. Oh, and sometimes I'm into girls when I'm super worked up but most of the time I'm not. Wtf?

MollyB
Trust and chemistry... it makes all the difference in the world. Sometimes timing adds or subtracts from the chemistry as well.

All good....

For me it does come and go...mostly goes when I cum...then damned if it isn't back again in thirty minutes or so!