I'm in love with a...

Question for both the ladies and the gentlemen.

Is it weird to fall in love with a provider?

I saw a provider recently and I cannot get her out of my mind. She is all I think about and I told her.

At first she seemed receptive but not so much anymore.

I know it probably is not the best idea but I thought I would take a chance.

You can call me whatever you want but still would like an honest opinion.

Oh and I understand that she may not leave the hobby and I am okay with that.
  • cR7
  • 12-31-2016, 06:12 PM
Don't do it. Nothing can go right here. Might be time to try a different provider
hardroad63's Avatar
I do understand your feeling. I too have fallen in love with a provider. I'm to old to do anything about it, but I love the feeling. Stay strong.
Coach says . . .

Although it may seem like a good fit, the fact remains the same, you are a hobbiest and she is a provider. She has fulfilled a SEXUAL fantasy or fantasies with you and the feeling of mutual intentions are NOT there. That is what the GFE experience is. A girlfriend experience. Try not to let it go to your head, there have been times when I myself have had feelings for a provider but had to stay strong in knowing that it would never work out. Maybe in the history of escorting, less than 1% has ever been a true match made in heaven. Don't let the possibility of Richard Gere and Julia Roberts go to your head brother, your chances of finding true love is better on Match.com than ECCIE. MY 2 cents worth.

Coachpaul
hardroad63's Avatar
Coach is a wise man indeed.
SugarLove055's Avatar
You can't help who you love but keep your head about you. Nothing lasts forever anyways, so milk it up and live in the Now.
Tequila Rose's Avatar
Not saying it can't happen but not likely. After all as providers you get the best of us. The GFE happy to see you no nagging happy to share woman of your dreams. In turn we get the attentive man who makes us feel pretty and special and spoils us. It's a win win. Once you remove hobby we all become like every other real world man and woman. We have flaws faults and bad habits. It's easy to love the version we all put forward. Harder once the rose colored glasses are off.
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  • Zena
  • 01-04-2017, 03:55 PM
It's a difficult situation , I can certainly understand BOTH sides.
I ain't never fallen for a provider but had a few that became good friends.
Jennatx's Avatar
Not saying it can't happen but it can. My opinion is don't do it. We provide the fantasy and if you like to see us again contact us. This should just be pp tip of relationship.
Anything could happen...Love is a beautiful thang...