New to the Hobby - Kira Sweets NCNS
So yesterday I posted in the ISO section that I am new to the hobby, located in N. Dallas and looking to be introduced to the hobby with a provider this week. A few responses were received on the thread as well as quite a few through PM. Based on what seemed to be pretty good reviews, I decided to contact Kira for an appointment. The initial phone call was not answered but I followed up with a text message to see if she would be available later. I had to take a call at work when she called back and messaged numerous times saying that if I wanted that time we should definitely set it up. Called and spoke with her to confirm the time. Things seemed good to go. About 1.5 hours before the agreed time I messaged her asking for the exact address. About 40 minutes prior to agreed time she responded with the address and some instructions for parking. I responded confirming it was received. When I showed up to the incall location 5 minutes early (some sketchy people around FYI) I let her know I was there via text. No response so I continued calling/texting NUMEROUS times the next 30 minutes with no answer. Drove home and still no response 2 hours later. Thanks for the warm welcome to the hobby Kira.
Some honest advice: It can be rough being a newbie (I know - I used to be one). Stuff happens in this little old hobby world. Sometimes we get Fucked, and sometimes we get fucked, if you know what I mean. Happens to all of us at one time or another.
Remember - there are over 700 providers here, just in the DFW area. One NCNS should not give all of them a bad name. Many are newby friendly, and many are not. Do your research with the big head before you let the little one wake up. Also treat the providers with respect. Do these things and you will do well here.
(I know, in the meantime Mr. Willie is clamoring for pussy, and he won't shut up...don't have a great answer for that one...except maybe an AMP visit...)
I've been NCNS quite a few times even from girls with good reps. And there might be some fan boy that will try say its ur fault if they do just know they're pussy whipped.
Have a back up plan. I just tell the girls hey if my date cancels ur next and they seem okay with that.
Also studios are perfect back ups by the way.
It was several providers later before I got that treatment. Sorry. Skip the ISO. Pick who you want to see. Pick a backup to see. Pick a third. Contact all three for availability. First one that is available, book it. Let the other two know you will not be setting actual appointment. Doesn't fix the NCNS issue, but will increase you success rate. If all goes well, you will eventually find an ATF combination of reliability, service, price and location. At least you will discover who is reliable.
I'm sorry that you were treated with inconsideration your first go round... Life is what happens while we are busy making other plans... Don't give up!
Happens to us all , next , plan B
Kira gets sleepy sometimes.
Meh...Probably didn't miss much. I met her once - wasn't very memorable. I just remember it starting 10-15 minutes late.
Keep at it. There are some great ladies on here. Don't let this first attempt spoil it for you. ISO requests can be fun and lead to some great surprises, but I wouldn't attempt it early on. Build up your reputation first.