These visits at times can become so mundane and predictable. I do occasionally want to pin a woman up against a wall, hike her already too short skirt up and take what I want from her. Adrenaline fueled sex can be a real blood pumper. For guys that are slow risers, maybe it's an indication that you need something more spontaneous.
Tearing off panties (well, not ACTUALLY tearing them, but aggressively sliding them down), gasping, heavy breathing, this tends to create a higher body temperature, which I love. Yeah, this Johnny on the spot kind of sex is a nice way to shake things up. This is about as 'rough' as I'd want to get. Actual pain and related fetishes don't really do any thing for me. Just not my cup of tea.
I wish there was a way in real life to get laid this way without being too rapey. I want to TAKE a woman, not rape her, you know. I'm sure most normal women occasionally feel the submissive urge to be taken, particularly by some guy that they lust after.
Of course, we guys aren't mind readers, and don't know when to act on these moments. I wish there was a way for women to signal that they wouldn't mind being...taken. Wearing a skirt in public that you KNOW is too short (you know it's too short because you keep trying to pull it down...only there's nothing to pull down) may be an indication, but sane guys are cautious to act on it.
Come on, ladies. Figure out a way to signal us when you want this to happen.