I had the recent, unfortunate experience of having a guy try to obtain my private incall location before it was necessary. The guy text way earlier than needed for the address. After I gave him the address and parking instructions, I instructed him to text for apartment number once he arrives (like I have done with everyone else). He tried to bs me, stating that he was going to leave his phone in the office. (who does that?) I let him know that if he can't text like everyone else when he arrives, he'll have to call from a payphone near by.
He seemed a little too nosy and overzealous, so I text to cancel, stating something came up. He said, no problem. I had to go outside to do something, then I saw him pass by in his company car. About two minutes later, I saw him come back and turn into my complex. He drove down a bit, then came back and turned into the parking lot near my building...slow-rolling the whole time. CREEPY
I've had nothing but nice respectful clients, come to my private incall until now. He was screened through reputable references and additional verifiable info.
Guys like this ruin it for everyone! So, for now, new clients can no longer visit me at my private incall and need to wait for times when I might host elsewhere in town or provide their own location.