question about advertised "fetish" sessions

oksensualadventures's Avatar
Been wondering about this for a little bit. I've sort of always had issues "getting it up" since I started having spine and nerve issues and even when it works, something in my head always turns off the power before I'm able to complete. so i've concentrated on her pleasure and enjoying the energy exchange of all of it.
I don't so much crave the actual sex and pushing for my climax any more. how common is this among mongers and does that become an issue for providers? I love my kinks and fetish play and that's more of what I want to pursue. the vast majority of reviews I've read since coming here seem focused on bbbj skills and MSOG so I'd just like some feedback.
This has been an issue when I used ashley Madison in the past but I gather those ladies weren't of the same mindset as we have here.
Thanks in advance for reading
down4fun's Avatar
You pay you play, just ask the girl beforehand so both of you know what to expect. I doubt it would be a problem for her to accommodate you and if it is there are lots of fish in the sea.
houston_switch's Avatar
Look for those providers that feature fetishes in their ads. Its all okay, communicate and you will be happy.