It is real. It is potentially awesome. But to get to the awesome real arrangement, you'll most likely deal with a lot of teasers and dead ends.
I messaged quite a few gals and set up meetings with quite a few during my first few months on the site. A number of the gals I met with turned out to be INDYS and/or BP gals and they all offered a session back at their place immediately after meeting for coffee or drinks. I also got no showed by at least 3 gals, one of them more than once.
But, a few months ago, I did meet someone who is awesome. I give her a monthly allowance and we get together once or twice a week. It took me 6 months to find her, but it was well worth the effort.
Originally Posted by myalterego62
What he said. It depends on what you truly are looking to find
The good - when you find one that is worthwhile, you can have far better BCD at a lot cheaper price with a girl who truly gets into and enjoys it
The bad - you have to spend a lot of time finding the right one. Along the way you may run across
1. Indy / BP girls
2. UTR hos
3. girls with GPS
4. girls who are not serious
Also - you now are typically seeing one girl - so if you like variety, forget about that (if you are talking a real SB)
My longest went about 10 months. 26 year old divorced stripper - who was hotter than 90% of the woman on TOS and better in bed as well. Saw her weekly - usually at 100 a week.
My current is a early 30's black professional, divorced. better girlfriend experience than any past girlfriend. Only seen her 3 times so far , but they have been for 5 hours, 5 hours and 2.5 hours (and the 2.5 was only because that is all the time I had)
I am also still communicating with a few others I had interest in before my recent one month expired on SA. Have plans to fuck one of them these week also
That said, it took a lot of work and luck to find the right ones. if you are in this for variety or ease of access - just stick with providers, it is much easier. but if you are willing to put in the time and find one girl you want to bang over and over, it will take time but could be rewarding