When you just don't have a good time?

What happens when you have a bad time with a lady? After all you can look at profiles, read all the reviews and ROS, ask around and otherwise do your homework, but when you see a lady (especially for the first time or she's a new provider) things may not go as planned and your time is over and your disappointed.

It's possible for whatever reason the lady acts 100% different from the first meeting to and the second meeting. We all have bad days so I don't want to judge.

However, how should a guy handle this if it happens? I'm inclined to, time permitting, discuss it before you leave, or if you are mad about it cool off first, then pm or email and ask to call. I know you shouldn't be a dick about it, but what other suggestions are there?
Moonchild's Avatar
If my experience wasn't the same as other reviews, I chalk it up to YMMV and I move on. Providers can't like everyone and guys don't have to either.
Sometimes things just don't click, it happens.
JustaGuyinMS's Avatar
If my experience wasn't the same as other reviews, I chalk it up to YMMV and I move on. Providers can't like everyone and guys don't have to either. Originally Posted by Moonchild
I agree with Moonchild. If reviews are very positive, and I had a somewhat different experience, I just drop it. Now if something is terribly wrong, I believe I have a responsibility to report it to others, including the lady in question.

Luckily, that has happened a very, very few times.

JaG
Sometimes things just don't click, it happens. Originally Posted by Road Lizard

This.

Saw a visiting girl a while back, had a less than average time. She just wanted to talk for 35 minutes of my hour. When we finally got things rolling along, it was a lackluster performance on her part. As it progressed, she was grimacing as if she was in pain. I definitely left a bit disappointed.

But the reviews that followed her visit were largely exceptional. So I figured, who knows. Maybe it was me. Maybe it was her. But it just didn't click for us that day. Like RL said....it happens.
Different strokes for different folks. Just because she had great reviews doesnt mean that you will click when you meet. Its usually a good indicator but some people just dont mesh. As long as she tries to provide a good session and you get what you came for then chalk it up to experience. No need to leave a review telling how bad a time you had. I usually just wont leave any review at all in such case. There are some girls I had a terrible session with the first time then saw them again later and it was great.
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Lol F u n n y
greyghost48's Avatar
Just write your review as it happened. Let the readers sort out the reviews pro and con.