This topic is funny to me as I always wonder if I'll run into a client outside of the bedroom. I've literally got into instances where people I've met (like, fellow twenty somethings) have friends who have been clients of mine! Small world.
I'm in my early twenties, and for nightlife my provider and nonprovider friends hang out at the same places most twentysomethings frequent-- Midtown, Montrose, Downtown...(eg the Westheimer string of bars including Anvil, Poison girl). YMMV with a provider of a different age, of course.
But surprise, most providers look pretty normal outside of work
Good luck picking us out from civvie girls