If your provider wasn't a provider, would you give her a second look?

Forgive me if this topic has already been discussed.

A friend of mine told me today that he pays a lot of women that he wouldn't give a second look in a normal situation. i asked him why? He said it was because they were willing to do everything under the sun and they had good reviews.

Fellas, my question to you today is : If the lady you currently pay to see wasn't an escort, would you give her a second look in a normal/everyday situation?

My answer is yes and no. Some are not that physically attractive so in a quick glance situation I wouldn't and vice versa for the good looking ones but I will say it has taught me to try not to do that anymore because I usually have a better time with the first group. The pretty ones on average are just not that fun. Before all you beautiful ladies get in a tiff there are exceptions on both sides.

I would never pay a woman for her time that I would not give a second look in the civilian world.

I generally pick providers that I feel wouldn't give me a 2nd look, so hell yeah I would give her a 2nd, 3rd, 4th look

Yes, I would give her a second look and mumble to myself "Bet That Would Be Fun To Mess Around With!" Would I ever persue her, No.

I think the real question would be if the provider would give the hobbyist a second look, if she wasn't providing? Or would you ladies still be stuck on your ideal guy and never give the average guy that's not all that a chance?

I generally pick providers that I feel wouldn't give me a 2nd look, so hell yeah I would give her a 2nd, 3rd, 4th look

Originally Posted by CarolinaGent

Puhhhlease You are not a bad looking guy. I'd give you a 2nd and 3rd look. You're just too shy.

Well there are a lot of attractive ladies here on eccie. However, there are also very unattractive ladies here that charge $200 an hour and up. I always wonder if the guys that see them would give them a second look if they weren't providers. I've noticed that the unattractive ones are more willing to do everything under the sun than an attractive provider that won't do -- say err greek or CIM for example.

I have read reviews that said "She's not a looker in the face but her ass was fat and I wanted to be up in that" - Well something like that. This has led me to believe that a lot of men really do not care as long as the price is right and she's game.

Well it's also true what they say - Beauty is in the eye of the beholder - Right?

In my opinion, coming from the dating world into providing, I say yes. I am a bigger woman. I am cute, but everyone has a preference. I am still to this day amazed at how many young, thirty something hotties are paying me for sex and come back again and again. I think society has an effect on guys. They all want the trophy wife in public, but BCD it's a whole different story.
In the long run, attitude and some assets play a major part.

I've noticed that the unattractive ones are more willing to do everything under the sun than an attractive provider that won't do -- say err greek or CIM for example.


That isn't always the case. Look at some of the TOP TER girls and most have a very open menu and are very model material. Then again these girls charge 1k or more. In gernal you are right by the fact the alot of the girls who arn't as top teir as some usually have a more open menu and a cheaper price, I guess to get more business.

Well there are a lot of attractive ladies here on eccie. However, there are also very unattractive ladies here that charge $200 an hour and up. I always wonder if the guys that see them would give them a second look if they weren't providers. I've noticed that the unattractive ones are more willing to do everything under the sun than an attractive provider that won't do -- say err greek or CIM for example.

I have read reviews that said "She's not a looker in the face but her ass was fat and I wanted to be up in that" - Well something like that. This has led me to believe that a lot of men really do not care as long as the price is right and she's game.

Well it's also true what they say - Beauty is in the eye of the beholder - Right? Originally Posted by Naomi4u

There are a lot of women I have not seen for one reason or another, but I would estimate about 85% of the ones I have seen would definitely have turned my head.

That isn't always the case. Look at some of the TOP TER girls and most have a very open menu and are very model material. Then again these girls charge 1k or more. In gernal you are right by the fact the alot of the girls who arn't as top teir as some usually have a more open menu and a cheaper price, I guess to get more business. Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

London made a post a few days ago that was so spot on: She said the higher rate makes it easier for them to tolerate the client and do all those things. I never thought abut it like that. Even if someone paid me 2k I could not do greek... I'd cry

I tend to look for someone that's attractive and has a very open menu.

It won't hurt long Naomi!

To answer your original question on post. I think I might consider a 2nd look if there was some chemistry between us. It would be like going to a bar knowing before hand knowing that she was a working girl but would you talk to her anyways?

It won't hurt long Naomi! Originally Posted by shorty

Isn't that what we all say.