Apology's

If I offended or was disrespectful to any of the ladies at a social event I apologize. I don't know what I did to offend anyone but if you will enlighten me I will correct. Also goes to the fellow hobbyist I talked to a bunch of y'all who were present and all seemed good if anyone I didn't meet was disrespected I apologize and hope to make it right. Thanks. Ive had numerous PM's when I contact lady's and I just want to put it out there I in no way meant to be rude or disrespectful to anyone at the Social. I had a hell of a good time and plan to continue going.

Thanks for sharing...."stuff" people say might or might not have said is of little consequence.

You are new. That makes you as much a target whether you behave properly or not.

Social rule number one: expect respect and give it in return. Demand it otherwise and always let me know immediately if not happening.

I did not see you breaking any rules nor did anyone report any rules issues about you.

A Coed topic, not an ISO request.

Moved to the proper forum.

You're a good man for trying to get things straight. We were all NEW at one time...not knowing the protocol of the hobby...you got hit square in the face with a dose of reality! (lol) Heck, I've been there!

From here on out...it's very simple...be respectful. Take time to read a potential provider's showcase/ads...so, you know what she expects...and, if she's out of your donation budget...find someone who is. There are more than enough providers here that are willing to accomodate you. Good-luck to you!

Great advice from a class act.

Awesome advice and I appreciate it. Rates isn't a huge issue everyone is in the 2-3 range which its there time I'm not one to say who's worth what. I shouldn't have made my first question about rates and I'll try to better guard what I post. A lot of girls are willing to accommodate and that's why I love it here and plan on sticking around. I prefer incalls but I'm thinking prebooking (ugh i hate commiting why cant i just call when im ready? Haha) and out calls might be a better route for me. I'm Learning and appreciate all the help I can get!

we've had plenty of discussions...
just hang in there young grasshopper
I think you're pretty cool. maybe made some rookie mistakes
but who hasn't
just gotta learn from it..n keep on, keeping on
(ok...I now I have that puffy n mase song stuck in my head...can't nobody take my pride, can't nobody hold me down...oh, no...I got to keep on mooving lol)

Thanks you've been a huge help kitti! I need to prebook and thank you personally for the pm's and patience

you're welcome!!

LOL ohhh I remeber being new
once you get the hang of things hun
you'll be fine. From what I have seen from
you, you seem very sweet and honest.
I wish you the best of luck
<3 Summer
xoxo

Thanks summer. Love your pics u lil blonde naughty hottie

but I'm thinking prebooking (ugh i hate commiting why cant i just call when im ready? Haha) Originally Posted by Jten13

I know the feeling. I prefer being spontaneous as well. I never know how I'll be feeling 'till I'm feeling it. Plus as I mentioned in your Welcome thread, I don't like to see Providers when I'm in a bad mood or tired. I don't want to accidentally project any of that on them - plus I get the most out of my experience when everything is sunshine and rainbows.

Problem is, being spontaneous (short notice) makes it really difficult on the Provider to be able to manage her time. She doesn't want to be sitting around all day doing nothing for hours at a time. Knowing when someone is arriving also allows her proper time to prepare (be freshly showered, rested, etc). It allows her to schedule her personal life into it (I've got nothing on Mon afternoon, cool, that's when I'll get my hair cut..) And people that pre-book don't flake out as often as "short-notice" people who say they are coming (and then often never do preventing her from taking a legitimate apt and hurting her (causing loss of income))

See i would hate to waste the ladies time like that. i;m gonna have to pick a girl and prebook. I hope I'm in the mood if not ill just wing it.

Gentlemancaller sometimes prebooks do cancel too without notice. but I hate it when someone wants to book like within 10 mins, silly I do have a life too like you said we cant be sittin around the house all day and take calls its crazzy. Ive had guys call asking are u available I can be there in like 10 mins wtf lol.. and I explain to them that I do screen first before meeting and they dont like that too freaking bad lol..

I like to ask question (that's why we pm'ed texted) and be screened already then be able to do last minute booking( by last minute I mean that night a couple hours before scheduled appt