I'm not interested in full crossdressing, going out in public, etc. Do women out there find this hot, or a turn-off, or just meh? I would welcome hearing your stories. Personally I need for my partner to truly enjoy this fetish, not just tolerate it.
Other guys out there with a similar fetish are welcome to share their thoughts and experiences as well?
I've been with 2 providers, one now-retired who are very good at this and who clearly also find it erotic. The inimitable Dallas Rain is one of the two I mention, and she openly advertises that interest and is a wonderfully enthusiastic playmate for crossdressing in either a sensual or playful BDSM context.
We have had some highly sensual lovemaking sessions, some with the sole difference from BFE/GFE being the way I was attired, and her using a strap-on as part of the activities. Some involved sensual role plays, in which I role played as a woman, and she role played being a guy--the mind fuck of the role reversal of this was both exciting and illuminating for all 3 of us.
I greatly enjoy having my partner wield a strap-on, but gently, and preferably in mish, so that I can see her, and wrap my legs around her while she fucks me, and she can lean down and kiss me, just as I would later do to her.
Facesitting/DATY/DATO were especially exciting with my head draped in her lingerie and feeling her stocking clad legs on my body or around my head.
