I see a lot of providers say “over 40 only” or “love older men”. I fit this demographic. However, this demographic can sometimes have a hard time getting over the top, making a providers hole sore in the process, so I’m somewhat surprised to see this.
Originally Posted by Doug4343
Lots of reasons depending on the provider in question:
1.) Older men can last longer on that first pop but usually won't have several pops in them. 10 mins foreplay, 25 minutes of action and 25 minutes of chat might be preferable to 5 minutes of chat and 55 minutes of action over 3 separate pops.
2.) Older men may be more likely to pay the posted rate without haggling and may offer tips and gifts more regularly.
3.) Less pushy and takes cues from the provider (or simply easier to control depending on your perspective).
4.) Age. A 37-year old woman may feel more comfortable with 40+ year old men versus seeing a bunch of 19-year olds. She might have kids and want to avoid anyone close to that demographic.
5.) Less likely to run across an aspiring pimp.
6.) Better odds of finding a regular customer. A younger man might juggle relationships, tinder/pof hook ups, bar/club jump-offs and hobby activities. An older man may be married or divorced and just wants to see a handful of ladies on a regular basis with no drama. More consistent revenue stream allows her to be a lower volume provider...which means less inherent risk. It also can make you more dependent on individual customers unless you've got multiple revenue streams.
7.) Kinks. An older man typically has a better sense of his own kinks. Some of which may be on a providers' menu. The kinks can be fetishes that pay well for the lady. Most women would probably accept $350/hr + gifts/tips to spank a guy and chit-chat rather than letting Tyrone Thundercock try to use every Magnum XL condom she has in her drawer.
Generally speaking it's likely a combo of money and the perception that older guys are just easier to deal with.