Is OP still safe?

Hey all,

Very new to the hobby, had a few encounters over the years but trying to be more regular at it. I've seen 2 or 3 headlines the last 6 months about busts in Overland Park. Is this a worry? They seem to be from reputable news sites but undated which makes me wonder. A lot of action in OP seems to be the same hotel as well. I'm probably being overly cautious since I'm new but lately I don't even look at ads that say OP.
DallasRain's Avatar
Also safety is in who you're seeing!
If it's a reputable and well reviewed gal who knows how to conduct business and be discrete then it will be ok
That's the rub isn't it. Being new(ish) into this and figuring out where to even look can be harder than any other part of it
Unique_Carpenter's Avatar
There's no rub, it's simply being careful.
Research folks you're thinking of asking for a date, stay with reputable gals, and be aware of your surroundings.
Getting verified by the chosen provider can be a problem.
Getting verified by the chosen provider can be a problem. Originally Posted by jp1947
Ya I had one girl the other day ask the common age/race question. Then it was height, weight, haircolor, eye color. I was like do you want my fucking SS# also???.....
Cherokeechief's Avatar
There's no rub, it's simply being careful.
Research folks you're thinking of asking for a date, stay with reputable gals, and be aware of your surroundings. Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter
UC is absolutely right. No trick to it. Research a bunch and think with the big head.
Boredinop's Avatar
Ya I had one girl the other day ask the common age/race question. Then it was height, weight, haircolor, eye color. I was like do you want my fucking SS# also???..... Originally Posted by royamcr
I think I contacted the same one. She asked the exact same questions and also where do I live and what kind of car do I drive.
I had someone ask for my linkedin Profile the other day.
yourdesire's Avatar
Linkedin isn't so uncommon really. I'll go to Op but am low volume & discreet
DallasRain's Avatar
Yep ditto w sexy miss Yd
Unique_Carpenter's Avatar
The chair scene from the Dustin Hoffman movie Marathon Man comes to mind: Is it safe?
dumars's Avatar
OP and JoCo in general have been LE friendly for years!

Basic rule of thumb, if she got no kind of reputation, STAY AWAY!!!!

It is written, therefore it is so!
I run my appts right from OP and the girls that beg to see me schedule with me cause they know Im verified and a good time!!

Lol
They have the right to ask for anything they want...getting it is a different story. Anything IRL is a no go for me in a hobby predicated on anonymity. But to each his/her own.

And to the OP, as others have stated...the area is like most any other. Keep your head on a swivel and you’ll be fine.

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