I have been with one girl a lot of times but she's not in the game now. I would love to meat some of the girls around Omaha, but I don't have a reference. I would be willing to meetup without a few girls without anything illegal going on. Just hanging out for an hour or two just talking. Is this an OK thing to do or is it against the code?
Meeting with the lady for lunch or coffee is okay, you will be expected to pay for the ladies time though.
I know me personally, I would still require the same screening as I always do for everyone.
Pick 1 or 2 ladies on here that you think you can trust and let them screen you, after they see you "most" girls will see you with the okay's from the other ladies.