Ever been busted by LE

Normally I do the good old oil check to verify if a provider is real before even talking about money. Most are fine and understand that I'm being cautious but others are so scared that I want to touch them for free. Like I'm going to waste hours of my time to touch a vagina for 3 seconds. I've walked out on girls that seemed adamant about me not touching them but want to get them donation right away.

So how do you make yourself comfortable when seeing someone new?

So let me get this right......to ensure a provider is real......you finger them. And you have been sucessful with this?

I think you should wrap a 100 dollar bill around the finger you use......if she pulls it off your finger with her vagina stay......if she place a cuff on your hand....make a fist in there....cause ur fucked anyways.......

Only thing I do with new ladies who don't have reviews is not pay until half of the appointment is finished (overnight). Especially if they are smokers. Been in too many situations where chicks have tried to cash and dash in between and overnight appointment on a smoke break. Or claim to be sick into the appointment time and need rest on my time to accommodate their new found sickness. When I offer them the chance to leave with the percentage of the rate they have stayed.....they suddenly get better lol. Since most ladys take money after anyways out of respect and to be careful I'm not LE.......seeing one who wants money upfront raises my spidey senses and is usually a sign they are running a scam or they know that they can't realistically fulfill your request. So I have them leave donation on dresser until after appointment. If she doesn't agree I don't see her.

With reputable ladies I'm less critical. But if they smoke Ill ask out of respect.

I just get undressed, the laughter and the finger pointing indicate the all clear.

I guess I have done the research and connected with providers who are professional in every way . . .Ok there is a pun there . . .so what.

I read the reviews and read the provider's website for the way they want the donation transferred, then do that. Because I know who they are, and they have sctreened me, we j both are comfortable moving straight into a mutually respectful/mutually exploitative PFP encounter. "Vagina touching "at some point is a given.

While I may have misunderstood: What the OP is describing sounds like the mutual paranoia associated with picking up a SW with no prior knowledge of her as a provider.

No. But I don't troll for questionable women ether.

Never been close do your homework always give yourself plenty of time before you go in for a visit.

Do your research, and you shouldn't have a problem. Now, there is the off chance she has been compromised by LE, and the word hasn't gotten out yet. You can only be so careful, but there are times when things are beyond your control. That is why I like what I have with my UTR/mistress. We've gotten to the point where we fuck first and TCB afterwards. Hoping to get to the point with her where TCB is not necessary

See where I am from you get a lot of girls who are new to the business. Most on BP are there one week and gone the next. I think they feel it's easy money and find out fucking someone you aren't attracted to isn't fun. Or they just need some quick cash and escort every once in awhile to make ends meet but never long enough to get reviews and if they do the next time they provide its with a different phone number. I've been in some situations where I thought it could be LE and walked out. I'm not sure they'd let me walk or not if it was LE but either way they had nothing to arrest me with. I asked to touch the girl she declined and I said ado.

Nope
I screen too.

So how do you make yourself comfortable when seeing someone new? Originally Posted by Wizbull0

4-5 good stiff drinks in the 90 minutes prior does wonders to ease an uncomfortable situation.

I find your method completely degrading. It may work for streetwalkers, but any girl with an ounce of integrity are going to walk away.

Just check reviews, man.

I find your method completely degrading. It may work for streetwalkers, but any girl with an ounce of integrity are going to walk away.

Just check reviews, man. Originally Posted by sketchball82

Degrading? You are paying for sex, they are letting strangers fuck them for money. But hey let's quibble about a quick touch to verify both parties are not LE.

And what part of my response did you not understand? When there are no reviews how do you check reviews? Call her and ask for the last five clients she has seen phone numbers so you can call to verify?

... But hey let's quibble about a quick touch to verify both parties are not LE.

... Originally Posted by Wizbull0

I must be missing something here. She allows you to touch her genitals, and you do so. How does this establish that neither of you is LE?

What, there's some cop rule that they can neither touch, nor be touched? That's actually pretty funny. Because for our exalted Protectors and Servers, there are no rules. And regardless of what else they do, or don't do, there's one thing they can always do: lie. I'm pretty sure that the L in LE actually stands for Lie (or Lying, or Liar, etc.).

Normally I do the good old oil check to verify if a provider is real before even talking about money. Most are fine and understand that I'm being cautious but others are so scared that I want to touch them for free. Like I'm going to waste hours of my time to touch a vagina for 3 seconds. I've walked out on girls that seemed adamant about me not touching them but want to get them donation right away.

So how do you make yourself comfortable when seeing someone new? Originally Posted by Wizbull0

And, by the way, I have yet to discuss money at an appointment, ever. The way it works for me is: she publishes her rate structure online. Assuming I'm booking an appointment that's covered by her published rates, I simply ask to book x hours, and bring the appropriate amount of cash with me in an envelope to the appointment, where I hand it to her without comment and then excuse myself to the shower, during which time I can assure myself that my butt's free of dingleberries, and she can assure herself that her consideration has been covered satisfactorily. And if I'm booking some amount of time that isn't covered by her online schedule, I tell her in advance, by email, how much time I'm asking for, and whether such-and-such an amount of compensation will be sufficient. Easy, simple, and straightforward. I realize that my approach may not work well in a backpage situation. But I've never involved myself in one of those, and I think I'll keep it that way. You know, in this modern day and age, it isn't really a problem to find established, reputable, research-able providers. And if it's that easy for me, tucked away in the northeast corner of Indiana, I can hardly believe that it wouldn't be even easier, pretty much anywhere else.

But I could be mistaken.

James, two excellent posts.