Ummm, we're guys. We're visual creatures. The sight of you bouncing up and down on us IS our trigger! And on the contrary to your need to mentally stimulate yourself to an orgasm (and there's nothing wrong with that!) we have to think of things that WON'T make us cum. Unless we're with the wife. Then we turn to REMEMBERING the sight of you bouncing up and down on us. It's a viscious circle! Originally Posted by PDidLOL I'm curious...what do guys think about to keep them from cumming?