Through the looking glass

An interesting thing happened to me the other morning. I was out with my regular weekly date and he wanted to get each of us a massage before our usual lunch and play session. That sounded wonderful so he picked me up early and we went out.
The place he had chosen for massage was booked until late in the afternoon which would have meant no play time. Me being facetious I suggested that maybe we should just call another provider. Naturally he loved the idea and jumped right on it. But that is when things got interesting.

He said it should be someone new to both of us, I agreed that yes it would make the experience more thrilling. So he looked through recent postings on BP. He found a cute little blonde that soon became his focus of want. So he called and asked if she did couples. When receiving positive responses, he made sure and verified that she actually really enjoyed being with a woman since he knows my very BI nature all to well. She said yes she loved women.
After negotiating a price for an hour of fun we headed downtown. On the way there everything was starting to sink in and I was nervous because of the unknown heading our way at 65 miles an hr.

It is strange that me being a professional would experience what I now understand a client must feel when meeting a girl for the first time. Finding a parking spot, heading down an unfamiliar hallway and knocking on a door. You notice everything as you walk to the door the maintenance man working on the elevator the housekeeper cleaning rooms, its like everything has slowed down in motion as you walk. All your senses are heightened. As he knocked we stood there for a moment she opened the door to us and let us in her smile the scent of the room was all new and yet it was luring us into her space.
We chatted for a moment i pulled out the cash and layed it down on the table and watched and heard her silent whispers of counting the bills.
I was very nervous as she slowly took her clothes off I sat in the chair in the corner watching as my client and her undressed then i proceed to take off my own clothes. They had crawled onto the cold bed and began fondling each other her woman was open to me and soon I felt the need to taste her,
My client was kissing her breast as i licked and slide my fingers deep in her woman. It was exhilarating and had me tingling with excitement. The nervousness and worries were long gone we had an unforgettable afternoon of pure pleasure. At the end we all walked away very happy and satisfied from an afternoon of play time...

my questions to all you darlings is this;
What do ya'll feel or do when your nervous and you put yourself out there like that?
What as a provider can we do to make you feel more at ease?

An interesting thing happened to me the other morning. I was out with my regular weekly date and he wanted to get each of
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my questions to all you darlings is this;
What do ya'll feel or do when your nervous and you put yourself out there like that?
What as a provider can we do to make you feel more at ease?
Originally Posted by sweet.countrygirl

Be very forward - initiate a kiss, groping etc. It's not only a tension breaker, it's a big turn-on.

Meet somewhere first, before the fun begins, like a meet and greet.
Or a lunch or dinner date, I like yours a free meeting during lunch or dinner.

So did you get a massage.... lol

If I'm nervous on the way to a new appointment there isn't much I can do to relax. The best remedy for this is for the person I'm meeting with to recognize that I'm nervous and make me feel welcome and at home. This has a lot to do with the initial greeting and the first bits of communication. And speaking of massages, a nice back massage is great for relaxation.

To me, it is a providers body language that puts me at ease right away. Her physical openness, providing access to arms, legs, face, for touching.
Then it is that first electrifying kiss of the session that sets a lot of the tone for fun.
Her distance to me, breaking into my personal space without me even realizing it, dismantling any walls I may have put up because of the nervousness of the situation.


Combined with eye contact, soft touching while taking charge. Controlling the conversation by asking about hobbiests preferences for fun, asking me about my boundaries. Leading the fun till I am comfortable with taking charge.
Being there to catch you if you are undecided as what to do next.


Unbuttoning my belt and shirt, a little direction and feedback during fun.... That feels good
right there.

An interesting thing happened to me the other morning. I was out with my regular weekly date and he wanted to get each of us a massage before our usual lunch and play session. That sounded wonderful so he picked me up early and we went out.
The place he had chosen for massage was booked until late in the afternoon which would have meant no play time. Me being facetious I suggested that maybe we should just call another provider. Naturally he loved the idea and jumped right on it. But that is when things got interesting.

He said it should be someone new to both of us, I agreed that yes it would make the experience more thrilling. So he looked through recent postings on BP. He found a cute little blonde that soon became his focus of want. So he called and asked if she did couples. When receiving positive responses, he made sure and verified that she actually really enjoyed being with a woman since he knows my very BI nature all to well. She said yes she loved women.
After negotiating a price for an hour of fun we headed downtown. On the way there everything was starting to sink in and I was nervous because of the unknown heading our way at 65 miles an hr.

It is strange that me being a professional would experience what I now understand a client must feel when meeting a girl for the first time. Finding a parking spot, heading down an unfamiliar hallway and knocking on a door. You notice everything as you walk to the door the maintenance man working on the elevator the housekeeper cleaning rooms, its like everything has slowed down in motion as you walk. All your senses are heightened. As he knocked we stood there for a moment she opened the door to us and let us in her smile the scent of the room was all new and yet it was luring us into her space.
We chatted for a moment i pulled out the cash and layed it down on the table and watched and heard her silent whispers of counting the bills.
I was very nervous as she slowly took her clothes off I sat in the chair in the corner watching as my client and her undressed then i proceed to take off my own clothes. They had crawled onto the cold bed and began fondling each other her woman was open to me and soon I felt the need to taste her,
My client was kissing her breast as i licked and slide my fingers deep in her woman. It was exhilarating and had me tingling with excitement. The nervousness and worries were long gone we had an unforgettable afternoon of pure pleasure. At the end we all walked away very happy and satisfied from an afternoon of play time...

my questions to all you darlings is this;
What do ya'll feel or do when your nervous and you put yourself out there like that?
What as a provider can we do to make you feel more at ease?

Originally Posted by sweet.countrygirl

Damn I was just getting wood and the story was over. LOL I did try to get my ATF to pick out a provider or friend not letting me know who it would be and set up a time. thought the idea of someone I didn't pick out would be exciting .

Absolute agreement. Surprise, surprise surprise. That would be so freaking hot!

Damn I was just getting wood and the story was over. LOL I did try to get my ATF to pick out a provider or friend not letting me know who it would be and set up a time. thought the idea of someone I didn't pick out would be exciting . Originally Posted by i'va biggen

I can't give away all my secrets where's the mystery in that

Thank you all my darlings I really appreciate the freed back very helpful I've started baking cookies on some in calls when I can nothing like a warm chocolate chip cookie and the smell mmmm

Thank you!!!

Thank you all my darlings I really appreciate the freed back very helpful I've started baking cookies on some in calls when I can nothing like a warm chocolate chip cookie and the smell mmmm

Thank you!!! Originally Posted by sweet.countrygirl

To me, a providers sense of arrival, ( "sense of arrival", encompasses sounds like background music or a water fall, smell, atmosphere.) during the initial greet when she opens the door and I smell her is one of the most intoxicating moments in the session.

I would love to see how food is used to appeal to ones senses and ones physical arousal. (Smell of chocolate cookies, or chocolate dipped strawberries with whipped cream) wow!

"Sense of arrival"....interesting

"sound of water falling"...darn it, I just hate, when the toilet keep running

"smell"...no comment But could someone, please open a window

"seeing how food is used to appeal to ones physical arousal"....kind of kinky, don't ya think?

And finally...did someone say freshly baked cookies??? I just love freshly baked cookies and a cup of tea, or two!!!

But keep an arm's length distance from me, when serving those cookies...I'm kinky, but not that kinky

I'll make you some very very special cookies darling lol
Food can be used in sooo many fun kinky ways mmm pudding is very tasty

"Sense of arrival"....interesting

"sound of water falling"...darn it, I just hate, when the toilet keep running

"smell"...no comment

"seeing how food is used to appeal to ones physical arousal"....kind of kinky, don't ya think?

And finally...did someone say freshly baked cookies??? I just love freshly baked cookies and a cup of tea, or two!!!

But keep an arm's length distance from me, when serving those cookies...I'm kinky, but not that kinky Originally Posted by vkmaster

I'll make you some very very special cookies darling lol
Food can be used in sooo many fun kinky ways mmm pudding is very tasty Originally Posted by sweet.countrygirl

I would love to drizzle hot fudge from ur breasts encircling ur nipples all the way to the top of the love box. And than lick it off you.

I have only had one provider that allowed that but it was a very hot time

Alrighty then, drizzling hot fudge....hmmmm

How about a lady...not aiming my warp sense of humor towards sweet.country girl...drizzle that hot fudge around your tits and then all the way to your Johnson???

See how that feels first...no 2nd degree burns...OK continue as you wish

Alrighty then, drizzling hot fudge....hmmmm

How about a lady...not aiming my warp sense of humor towards sweet.country girl...drizzle that hot fudge around your tits and then all the way to your Johnson???

See how that feels first...no 2nd degree burns...OK continue as you wish Originally Posted by vkmaster

I would love to drizzle hot fudge from ur breasts encircling ur nipples all the way to the top of the love box. And than lick it off you.

I have only had one provider that allowed that but it was a very hot time Originally Posted by Grizzly

Play nice please ya'll I'm sure he wasn't meaning hot hot fudge love
You gentlemen are so sweet lets go back to juicy fun and
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