I love, love, love DATY. It's a dealbreaker for me if it isn't available. However, I have some minor neck issues which moderately restrict backward range of motion of my head, so I have been thinking about alternative positions.
I haven't personally tried DATY from the doggie position, where I would slide underneath her from behind and "go up" on her. Seems like it might be a comfortable position for the lady and also allow her to have more control over pressure and location than other positions, and would certainly be very comfortable for me. I would love to hear from the ladies especially, but also fellow DATY lovers whether this works very well or not. . . . . . .or from ladies of generous spirit who would be willing to make the sacrifice of helping me find the optimal position for her pleasure and my comfort. All in the interests of research and the good of our community of course. . . . .
I understand that for most women, the traditional position where they are on their back is the most comfortable one for them, and the position where it is easiest for them to come--something I always strive for.
My accommodation so far has been to kneel on the floor and pull my partner to the edge of the bed, which allows me to keep my neck straighter. That seems to work well for the ladies, and is better, but still not optimal for me.
My understanding from one previous post is that most of the ladies find it difficult to come in the 69 position or the queening position.
Are there other positions I might not have considered which work well for the lady and don't require backward bending of the guy's neck?