I know I will take some lumps here because I slipped like a rookie especially having my so involved . Go ahead and cast judgement as you will but my fellow mongers deserve to know fair warning and what they are dealing with .
Background :
My wife & I have met both in public & bcd with several well known & respected providers (Purrsia , Secret Encounters & more) . Ihave never encountered any kind of problems whatsoever . She DID NOT KNOW OF HOBBY AT ALL . I used a story if an ad on Cl , dating sites etc , etc . Everything had always worked out fantastically . Providers were always respectful & gave us both a great time .
I had even been dumb enough to become comfortable as to think I could take her to a social . I consulted CK's advice on this matter & thought better of it .
Story starts at a bar around 5pmish . My wife goes to do her nails . I go & have some drinks at the bar next door . Wife is going to be 2 hours . I put up an ISO & contacted LMCC & Genika . Lmcc was busy & maybe later . Genika said could be there in 30. I waited 45 . She came in , I bought her drink , slammed them . We decided to her incall which she said was off 151. We head away . Get to her incall which was closer to Kelly afb / Kennedy HS vicinity . Her private residence . Which is why what transpired still baffles me. We go in . Everything was cool . She offered me a beer . She slipped into something comfortable. I leave $180 donation. She sat me on a chair in her BR . Started dancing & then all of a sudden literally like. 5 min into it says ," I'm sorry Babe , family is calling. I have to meet them for dinner . I have to go."She gets dressed . I was upset & she said don't be mad babe - ill make it up to you both later . Call me tonight. She then takes me back to bar . wife meets me . We go to dinner , go back to bar , and have a few drinks. This is when my wife has her first drink . I have been drinking beerthe whole time so I'm buzzing for sure . Wife is milking a drink . I start calling Lmcc & Genika again . Lmcc told me she was with another provider at the moment . I offered $500 for a ride to a spot in the hill countryand a little hang out time within her limits of course - I am respectful didntexpect FS or anything like that, just to be clear .
I also offered genika the same amount , because neither where certain . I would not offer $500 for Just a ride only !! just to be clear.of course .Genikareplied right away but kept stalling Lmcc later replied said she prob could . Ff to about 1am bunch of texts back and forth . I was growing more frustrated and feeling ignored. I said something stupid to both to the extent of :It's cool lmk sorry to bug you just gonna cruise home if I don't hear from you soon . Im feeling like a dumbass waiting around . Please let me know . Then really dumb i said something like I guess I can't get a reply even with 500 . I guess I an a dumfuk. Again I am drunk at this point . Lmcc answers back she was getting ready & i am dumb & need to humble myself . I realize I was wrong when it came to her because she wasn't the one dragging on,But the otherprovider certainlywas. I apologized to her& still regret my actions with her, only .
Genika arrives with her niece . Both obviously had been drinking . We get in the car and she immediately asks for donation without much discretion . I told her I needed to stop at the bank . We drove to bank , I pulled out $600. We start heading out . She is immediately Swerving . They crank up the radio full blast singing the lovely summer classic "back that ass up", with the pax nipple hangingout of her blouse. No complaints on the nipple . My wife is getting worried ,they literally were swerving all over road . I asked if she could please pay attention to the road , which upset her very much . Next thing I know they are talking about going to clubs and passing out business cards , and telling "niggas shit this shit ain't free. You gotta pay for this shit . This shit is gold Bitch" all in front of my wife . She then stops at i10 Callaghan at a store . Says I need gas . I said cool & offered if anyone needed a water oranything . She then got out followed me to the side & within eyesight of my wife asked for donation upfront. I told her I'd give it to her upon arrival . She demanded it and said - ill tell your wife if you dont give it now., which changed my demeanor immediately . I fucked up and gave it to her to avoid confrontation with wife . That was fukin stupid . I went inside store , she walked behind store . I come out & she's walking back from a Cadillac suv . She gets in & immediately says she can't take us after all because her taillight is out . (All of a sudden ) . I get out & check it . Lights fine . I knew where this is going . She starts heading back to town toward where we came from . We had them stop at jack in the box 410/fred.& call an uber . They wait with us at jack in the box . Still chit chatting with us waiting for uber to arrive so obviously she had no problems with us , just planning to keep money . Über arrives , my wife starts getting out and getting our bags out of her trunk , which she opened for us . I whisper can I please have the donation back keep some gas . She screams for what ! Fuck you motherfucker. Get the fuck out of my car " I aint giving you shit . Why don't I tell her why you are here ." My wife starts getting pissed , what's going on , she asks me . Im dumbfounded , and respond she won't give he the gas money I have her to give us a ride out there . My wife tells her to give back the money or we are calling the fucking cops . How much / I say $100 hoping she will do right thing . She hands my wife a $20 bill . I said give it all now she tells me to fuck off . My wife says fuck you & calls the cops. .KarmaHer passenger starts puking in her car - I grabbed her bags hoping my cash was in there . No luck , just stripper clothes & pair of dancer heels . I still have and will return upon return of my money . Fucked up shit is using outing me to my wife as a way to burn me . So there's the real story . She outed me & She kept $680 total - I got a quick lap dance & ride to gas station & jack in the box . Wife did call the cops . Will let you know next chapter