What's a HJ worth?

Around here I'd say $300.







Because that's how much I save every time.
Afterward I think, "Whew, that was close."

As a teenager, guess I saved $1,200 - $2,400 per day.

These days it's about $300 every 3-4 days.

Around here I'd say $300.

Because that's how much I save every time.
Afterward I think, "Whew, that was close." Originally Posted by Marcus Aurelius

Oh, now you tell me!

Why didn't I realize how much money I was saving during my youth?

I had no idea that I had saved enough to have easily afforded to buy a Ferrari by the time I went away to college!

Oh, now you tell me!

Why didn't I realize how much money I was saving during my youth?

I had no idea that I had saved enough to have easily afforded to buy a Ferrari by the time I went away to college! Originally Posted by CaptainMidnight

I think this is the kind of math the Congressional Budget Office uses

you are referring solely to a savings value

like the young scot who so wanted to impress his father on his first day of work in town, instead of spending the bus fare his father had given him, he breathless exclaimed to his father upon arriving home from that first day, "father, here is the half pence i saved, instead of riding the bus home, i ran behind it all the way!" His father scowled and muttered, "you should have run behind a taxi and saved more money!"

of course a HJ, adminstered by some winsome maid, full of interest and in total virginal amazement of her subject's strange and wonderful member, cannot be denominated and its worth is not subject to mere quantification.

I realize this was meant to be funny, but the best jokes work because they are sprinkled with at least a little truth

Interesting to post this in D&T, where the ladies here will assert they are a "companion experience" (or something similar) not just a cum dumpster.

But the question I'd pose is how often do you drive home (or after she left) and think, "what a waste?" (of time and/or money). Or if money really is not a concern for you, think: "I could have fed a homeless shelter for the better part of a week for what I just spent."

[I'll make the assumption that most of the Tuxedos here have, overtime, had a variety of experiences with different types of providers at different price points. That is you've had some mid-priced hourly gals in the mix]

The second question I'd ask is if you answered at least "sometimes" to the above, is the frequency of when you say "what a waste" or "that was just ok" etc. different between the highend "companion experience" and the balance?

But the question I'd pose is how often do you drive home (or after she left) and think, "what a waste?" (of time and/or money). Or if money really is not a concern for you, think: "I could have fed a homeless shelter for the better part of a week for what I just spent." Originally Posted by atlcomedy

Sometimes, but I'd guess less than 5%. And of course, when it does happen, the first thing I think of is that I should have gone the homeless shelter route, either that or voluntarily paid more Federal taxes like TTH does.

The second question I'd ask is if you answered at least "sometimes" to the above, is the frequency of when you say "what a waste" or "that was just ok" etc. different between the highend "companion experience" and the balance?

Oh clearly. I can only remember having one wasted experience with an HDH (however defined) -- and that was probably as much my unrealistic expectations in that particular case. But even among non-HDH (i.e., an hourly in and out) the frequency is low and usually occurs when the little head does the thinking.

Thank you ATL it was intended to be funny.


Not that it has ever happened.


But as for answers, the hourly dine and dash is nearly 50% fail rate.
HDH (however defined) has never failed.

Sometimes, but I'd guess less than 5%. And of course, when it does happen, the first thing I think of is that I should have gone the homeless shelter route, either that or voluntarily paid more Federal taxes like TTH does.



Oh clearly. I can only remember having one wasted experience with an HDH (however defined) -- and that was probably as much my unrealistic expectations in that particular case. But even among non-HDH (i.e., an hourly in and out) the frequency is low and usually occurs when the little head does the thinking. Originally Posted by pjorourke

Thank you ATL it was intended to be funny.


Not that it has ever happened.


But as for answers, the hourly dine and dash is nearly 50% fail rate.
HDH (however defined) has never failed. Originally Posted by Marcus Aurelius

My experience is about the same...no regrets when it is quality & planned...the only regrets are the last minute "I struck out at the bar and need something before I go to bed" or "I woke up with morning wood" calls.

I realize this was meant to be funny, but the best jokes work because they are sprinkled with at least a little truth

Interesting to post this in D&T, where the ladies here will assert they are a "companion experience" (or something similar) not just a cum dumpster.

But the question I'd pose is how often do you drive home (or after she left) and think, "what a waste?" (of time and/or money). Or if money really is not a concern for you, think: "I could have fed a homeless shelter for the better part of a week for what I just spent."

[I'll make the assumption that most of the Tuxedos here have, overtime, had a variety of experiences with different types of providers at different price points. That is you've had some mid-priced hourly gals in the mix]

The second question I'd ask is if you answered at least "sometimes" to the above, is the frequency of when you say "what a waste" or "that was just ok" etc. different between the highend "companion experience" and the balance? Originally Posted by atlcomedy

OK, atl, you just transformed a semi-serious thread into a really serious thread.

[I'll make the assumption that most of the Tuxedos here have, overtime, had a variety of experiences with different types of providers at different price points. That is you've had some mid-priced hourly gals in the mix]

I think this is a big assumption. Guys who can only afford to pay by the half hour, IMHO, stick to that. I think most guys are like that. I have a definite tipping scale over which I will not go. Which means I don't see HDHs. However, I think there are some guys who can afford HDHs on a regular basis, and wouldn't dream of visiting with a lady on the lower $$ spectrum.

But the question I'd pose is how often do you drive home (or after she left) and think, "what a waste?"

I think I bat about 25/75 (75=what a waste). And there doesn't seem to be a relation to the price point.

is the frequency of when you say "what a waste" or "that was just ok" etc. different between the highend "companion experience" and the balance?

Hard to say. I haven't seen what I consider to be a high end companion due solely to the cost of the experience. If you were to ask me about what I imagine the experience to be like, I would have to say that I think most ladies I have dated, for the most part (and I have experienced exceptions to this), try to do their best. So, whether you are paying $$/hr or $$$$$$$$$$/hr, you tend to get the lady's best effort. Just because a lady charges more than another lady doesn't mean her skillz are that much better. I think, for the most part, a cheap f*ck is the same as an expensive f*ck. You know, a rose by any other name.... Part of the problem I think is that HDHs abhor reviews, so it is really hard to find good intel on the HDHs, and especially their multiple hour, overnight or weekend reviews. The result is that there are multiple reviews on the $$/hr lady, while nothing on the HDH. Absent good intel, I'm not sure I would see any lady whose rate is above $$$/hr.

Just my .02.

I think this is a big assumption. Guys who can only afford to pay by the half hour, IMHO, stick to that. I think most guys are like that. I have a definite tipping scale over which I will not go. Which means I don't see HDHs. However, I think there are some guys who can afford HDHs on a regular basis, and wouldn't dream of visiting with a lady on the lower $$ spectrum.



I think I bat about 25/75 (75=what a waste). And there doesn't seem to be a relation to the price point.



. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Charles - appreciate your thoughts.

Sure that is a pretty big assumption, but I don't know how off base it is. Sure there are some guys that have never seen anything but an HDH, but most of us start somewhere other than the highest echelon, either because of economics, information, or circumstances. But the point was to be able to answer my second question, one needs to have had a diversity of experiences in order to make a comparison.

I hope your batting average improves. I know it isn't for lack of trying - you obviously do your research and rely heavily on reviews.

I hope your batting average improves. I know it isn't for lack of trying - you obviously do your research and rely heavily on reviews. Originally Posted by atlcomedy

TY, and me too.

From an escorts point of view I wonder if it has more to do with the pre planning part than the price. I have never liked the idea of same day, or last minute appointments, and the few times when I did go against my own rules, and accepted them were almost always the times when I felt like something was just not right.

Pre planning gives you a chance to talk/email back, and forth a few times,so you can really get a feeling for each other .I know that many men rely on reviews, but I still think you can learn far more by talking on the phone a few times.

PS Masturbation is a great way to save our failing economy

I have never liked the idea of same day, or last minute appointments, Originally Posted by Becky

Neither do I. I have never done a same day appointment, and prefer to preplan appts as far in advance as possible. I think I average about 4-7 days. Sometimes I start as much as a month in advance, but that is normally to see if the lady is going to be in town, nothing more. I prefer the preplanning so that I can schedule my clean up, shower, etc. prior to the meeting, and make arrangements for not being interrupted.

Even with that, I have come away from most appts disappointed. Guess most ladies don't realize how much I have invested in the session in terms of time and money. Oh, I guess they do know how much time and money, but what I mean is: they don't realize proportionally how much it means to me. To them, $$$ & 1 hr isn't very much. However, the value to me, proportionally, is very high. There isn't another thing during the whole year that I spend that much money on for me alone, and although an hour doesn't seem like much, when you ain't getting sex in the first place, and hour of it is valuable.

So, proportionally, the money and the time are valuable to me, and most of the ladies I have seen don't seem to comprehend that. Which means, I come away fairly disappointed most of the time.

PS Masturbation is a great way to save our failing economy

Originally Posted by Becky

Isn't that most of what goes on in DC?