Incall type...

Naughty_Jezabelle's Avatar
does it matter what type of incall a provider has...

hotel ... apartment... or house... Given that any of them are easy to get to and in a discrete location?
TexRich's Avatar
I like clean or upscale hotels more because homes and apartments tend to have nosey neighbors.
9pinBowler's Avatar
I'm much more comfortable going to a hotel. A shared apt/house makes me VERY uncomfortable. Never know who could be coming or going and who they brought with them.
Naughty_Jezabelle's Avatar
Hmmm that is way interesting... I always thought that guys prefered to stay away from hotels for several reasons.....

peronal feeling of the apartment or house, safety factor of hotels, discretion is easier in a private incall...

Thanks guys for the input... that definitely makes me think... lol keep it coming
i was thinking the same thing jez.
i always thought an apt was best....
great thread! im learning something here
Naughty_Jezabelle's Avatar
Well I am in the process of buying a home and was curious if I should keep my apartment or just dedicate a special area of my home to my "special company"...

But I truly thought guys prefered private incalls.. maybe we should get a hotel one day a week just for those guys that prefer it there... talk about customer service.. lol.. I am thinking about it now. lol
I prefer apartments or homes over hotels.
i actually mix it up....
im hardly ever at the same place twice
between different hotels...my incall, other ladies incalls....
variety is the spice of life right
Naughty,
Your current place is great!

For myself,..... I like an easy place to find, safe area, not a bunch of homeys sitting on the porch at 10 am watching me go in and out, very few vehicles on cinder blocks as I drive up, and a fairly clean place inside. ie:no visible litter box, dog hair, old diapers, and pee stained carpet.
I suppose each place has some pros and cons.

At an apartment complex I once ran into a client that knows me very well, and frequently plays *edit* with the SO. In my biz I don’t do house calls…so that provided an interesting moment. As she departed she smiled, winked and said…”Hope you have a good time.” Busted, damn women are just so smart… …..she never hinted anything to the SO. Come to think of it….I wonder why she was at that apartment complex????

On the not-so-rich side of town I arrived early for an appointment at a house and parked right behind a big boat Lexus. Hmmm why would this kind of car be in this kind of hood? No I didn’t waive to the guy when he left. Hehe…he did have a big smile on his face. I waited a few more minutes to call and say, “I just arrived.” She was ready to go when I came through the door. ;-)

At a very nice hotel I ran into a lady in housekeeping that used to clean my house. She wanted to talk….”What brings you here at 12:00, are you lost, can I help you find something, are you working today….yada yada.”

Someone once said, San Antonio is just a big small town....I tend to agree.
Mature Companion's Avatar
For many it is. But for some it's not.

I know many respectable men who won't see a lady in a hotel nor motel. No matter how nice it is or how well known she is.
There are more eyes/ears & lots of nosy people knowing & seeing her comings & goings. Not to mention LE setting up a possible sting in the adjoining hotel rooms.

Then again. It all depends on who the provider is. IF she screens at all.
What type of men she's seeing and how THEY approach & leave her incall. Some men feel the need to be loud upon arrival & departure that THEY are the ones drawing a lot of unnecessary attention to the ladies incall.







i was thinking the same thing jez.
i always thought an apt was best....
great thread! im learning something here Originally Posted by MsPrittiKitti
PaganGuy's Avatar
I'd prefer a private residence to a ho/mo/no-tell. Would feel more cozy and the intimacy of actually seeing a lady in her personal environment would add to the 'GFE' fantasy alot.. getting a little glimpse into who she actually 'is'.
SpursFan's Avatar
FYI,

Click on View Poll Results first to see how public it is.

SF
I once did an incall at a ladies house, then found out why I had to come between 8-3: it was because that was when her fiance was at work, And he didn't know she was still escorting. Better to go to a hotel than risk having an SO come home during the session. YIKES!
9pinBowler's Avatar
I recently had a session with a lady I had seen before. She told me her incall location had changed to which I said no biggie. Once I got there, she informed me she shares the incall with another provider and that she may stop by while we were BCD. I was NOT comfortable with that and had no interest in meeting the other lady. I did hear her enter the apt at some point but thankfully, she wasn't there when I left.

Discretion is important to me. This did not feel very discrete. I'm sure most wouldn't have a problem with this situation but it did bother me.