This has already been posted before.
Here is the thread started a while ago:
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=228026
As a black provider I am not threatned by caucasian women. I am also not threatned by other ebony ladies in the business. At the end of the day, we are all unique and have something different to offer.
The bs about agencies not wanting to hire black provdiers is tired. We've all heard it. Every single agency I applied to wanted to hire me but one not because they thought I was unattractive but for the simple fact that I was black. The agency owner's response was "You're very pretty but we don't get a lot of calls for black girls. I can try to advertise you and see what happens". I didn't have time for that - so I moved on. I also wasn't upset. This business is about preferences. I understand that and ALL providers should understand that.
It comes down to this -- some ebony ladies are simply not attractive , they do not know how to take care of themselves and can't speak proper english. And it also seems that there are more ebony ladies running scams on backpage than Caucasian ladies. From California to Manhattan, NY - They have given "us" a very bad name. The gentleman that owns a fortune 500 company that wants to book a companion for an all day date doesn't want to spend time with someone that he cannot understand. He wants to be able to understand what is coming out of your mouth and he wants you to look good and dress like a normal person in public. I have met a few ebony ladies that do not know how to do this. And yes I have also met ghetto white providers and they are the WORST but of course they do not get singled out because there are more Caucasian ladies in the business than there are blacks.
Ladies like that make it easier for ladies like Lisa, Luxury Daphne, Myself, Alicia Kerrington, Sofia Kemp, Tiffany J, Katie Kuada, Mylan Larue, Jaleh .. to be successful in this business because we're seen as "rare". A little effed up maybe but it's the truth. 95% of my clients are white and they're professionals/successful business men. They worship us. I have also heard of guys that will not date a ebony woman. So what? Again this business is about preferences. The day I see my business taking a hit is the day I will worry about it. I've done surveys, polls and researched up and down on this subject to find that those men are a very small group. So what do I do to fight the stereotype? I speak very good english and fluent in multiple language. I do not smoke, use drugs or do anything that of that nature. I take care of myself and look good for my clients
ALL the time. My incall at the minimum is a 4 star hotel (at the minimum) nope never at a motel six, kew motors inn, days inn, hampton inn - nope never ever. I am consistent. I am 100% honest about my looks, services..etc. My rates are always grandfathered for clients. I do not upsell. I do not bs. It's all a straight forward service.
As an ebony provider, I understand we have to work three times harder than Caucasians. Now if ALL ebony providers understood that, they could charge as much money as they wanted. There are a lot of high end ebony providers but to be on that level one must act, look and be the part. Saying men aren't willing to pay top dollar for a black provider is bs. I and others that charge three times more than I do have proved that theory wrong again.... and again. Everyone provider both white and black CANNOT command a high rate. That is just fact. It has nothing to do with race but the individual/the product you are selling.
xoxox,
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), had the nerve to openly say that I was too high priced for a BLACK GIRL... Now, what the HELL does race have to do with my rate structure? If you don't see black girls because of WHATEVER your personal preference, that's one thing. But, to openly express that you think I'm too high priced for a BLACK GIRL... IMHO, that is a CLEAR example of racism in it's purest, lowest form.
