Need some help

I can't seem to get a hang of this whole thing quite yet. Many providers require refrences, but i can't get refrences until I successfully spend time with a provider. Can someone help me out here?

Use the Search tab at the top of the page. Make the Search tab your friend. Do your homework the answer to your question is there along with the answer of many of life's questions. Or download some porn and rub one out. Its your choice.

Put "newbie friendly" in the search tab and pick one......