It's a good time to be really careful. Be cautious of any new members of any sites; including verification sites. Be very selective about who u take references from and ALWAYS match the last 4 numbers of their phone number and where they met. Please include this in ur first correspondance! Time is money!
Ladies giving references, please do this professionally, thoroughly and in a timely manner.
Please upon contact of a provider INCLUDE ALL OF THE FOLLOWING in ur FIRST correspondance: ur screening 411, ur last reference and ur most well known reference, the last 4 of ur phone number and where ya'll met. Maybe even one more memorable thing to help jar her memory. If u don't do this and wonder why u didn't get a response~ now ya know. Also shoot an email, pm or phone call to the ladies u seek a reference from especially if u have changed phone numbers. Thank you! Stay safe!!!
HAPPY HOBBYING EVERYBODY!