The Personality of a Discrete Submissive Male

Every now and then my libido demands that I assume a more submissive role. This often includes BDSM, strapon play, electro-stim, CBT, etc...I consider myself to be successful in business and acknowledge that my assertive personality usually leads the way for my achievements. However, when my sub side surfaces, it's a very exciting role to fulfill.

Curious if most subs of this particular type share similar traits.

YEP!
Need it, want it, love it...
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I would fit that mold--been a business owner my entire adult life in a couple of different fields. Would not know how to "work for someone". Increasingly in my hobby life, I enjoy giving up control to my partner(s) & allow them run of their imagination to push both our limits.

Having spent many years in a medical environment, I find my kink(shock) factor is higher than most & the challenge is to find those women who really get off on a dominant role and get schedules to match up.

Most of my subs are CEO's and business owners. When one is in control 99% of the time there is a need for balance. You want to lose control and allow someone else take the reigns. It is a euphoric release. I believe power exchange is extremely therapeutic. I also enjoy being empowered as the Dominant in role reversal. I love what I do!!

Every now and then my libido demands that I assume a more submissive role. This often includes BDSM, strapon play, electro-stim, CBT, etc...I consider myself to be successful in business and acknowledge that my assertive personality usually leads the way for my achievements. However, when my sub side surfaces, it's a very exciting role to fulfill.

Curious if most subs of this particular type share similar traits. Originally Posted by txcwby6

Personality has nothing to do with orientation or preferences.

Most of my subs are CEO's and business owners. When one is in control 99% of the time there is a need for balance. You want to lose control and allow someone else take the reigns. It is a euphoric release. I believe power exchange is extremely therapeutic. I also enjoy being empowered as the Dominant in role reversal. I love what I do!! Originally Posted by Goddess Athena

What she said!

xox

I find submitting to a Dominant to be thoroughly liberating, and more intimate than sex.
I can fully and more wholly explore my body and mind and totally prefer a Dom/sub situation (with or without "completion") 100 to 1.
It is the ultimate.

Ps- I am that exact CEO stereotype mentioned and while I do find that the idea of being in control all the time and needing to let go holds true to a degree, I also find that having the confidence and security in the "real world" allows me the ability mentally so completely give it away for predetermined amounts of time. (I like to submit completely)

There are times when I just want a woman to rape me.

Personality has nothing to do with orientation or preferences. Originally Posted by Lion26

I do not portend to be an expert on this topic but I would thing personality is extremely important with regard to being a sub. I think foot fetish fanatics like myself, we are mildly to wildly submissive in our art. My favorite activity is to be on the floor, face up with my lover sitting on the bed, maybe a chair, and have her place her bare feet direct in my face for extended worship. Ashley Anderson out of California who tours my way often, she is by far and away my ATF.Each time we do meet, she will EM me a day before and say "I'm looking forward to you adoring my feet." Once I had her wear some leather boots, requested she wear them several hours prior to meeting. I assumed the position and told her I would close my eyes, I wanted her to take off her boots, one at a time and have me taste her feet, without knowing exactly when her lovely foot would make contact.The extreme thrill of knowing the pleasure coming my way but not knowing the moment of the first contact, soles on the face.......Eyes closed tight, I could Hear Her unzip the first boot and, just the sound of that, drove me totally out of my mind.Rock hard from the sound. That sound was the appetizer to what followed. The taste and erotic smell of her luscious sweat, blended with the scent and taste of the leather, the thrill is nearly beyond description, but describe it I did.
I suppose I have greatly digressed from the intent of the thread but once I started to write, had to share. I am a lukewarm submissive and personality has a big 'say' in my favorite sexual activity.

Couldn't agree more. I like when my sub is powerful in public.

Most of my subs are CEO's and business owners. When one is in control 99% of the time there is a need for balance. You want to lose control and allow someone else take the reigns. It is a euphoric release. I believe power exchange is extremely therapeutic. I also enjoy being empowered as the Dominant in role reversal. I love what I do!! Originally Posted by Goddess Athena

The domina I used to visit in Dallas had an easygoing personality that allowed for a very easy transition for me to the role of a submissive. She pushed thru many artificial/mental barriers that had restricted my view of "proper" sexual activity and made every visit an exciting journey. The first time she showed me the hollow urethral sound that she said was going in my cock (after she'd tied me down and I'd decided to try it) had me frightened and incredibly excited at the same time. When the blunt, lubed tip of the sound started to open my slit and disappear, I remember to this day the feeling of my heart pounding in my chest. Once inserted, I was amazed it's slipped in so easily. When she alternated between a gentle blowjob, slow handjob and expertly applied vibe I was sure I'd tear free of the restraints due to my total surrender to the scene. To this day, I cannot remember a more intense and erotic orgasm as my cum spurted thru the hollow sound like an oil well gushing oil. I was, of course, made to beg to be fed my load (which I did).

... I suppose I have greatly digressed from the intent of the thread but once I started to write, had to share. I am a lukewarm submissive and personality has a big 'say' in my favorite sexual activity. Originally Posted by Solemate62

Solemate, that's interesting; thanks for sharing it. I still don't really "get" the whole foot thing, but I'm closer to getting it now.