Newbie here looking for some tips and advice on how to remain safe. From what I've read it sounds like I should stick to verified providers with positive reviews, but how do I know if a provider has been verified? Are outcalls or incalls generally safer, and are there any specific areas to avoid?
I'm considering contacting a provider from the MP section, who has 7 or 8 positive reviews, but I want to make sure I take the proper steps to protect myself. Any advice or website references would be appreciated.
Sorry for the stupid question, just want to make sure I do my homework to remain as safe as possible. Thanks.
- ksmarine1980
- 04-29-2013, 03:54 PM
- KCQuestor
- 04-29-2013, 04:16 PM
There is no guaranteed safety, but there never is in anything you do.
To be safer, though, definitely see a provider who has been verified here.
Look for recent reviews.
Read about how she screens her clients -- if she doesn't screen, that means she is not being safe and that places more risk on you. There is a catch-22 there, though, in that someone who is a strong screener is likely to not be able to validate you as you have no references. Consider joining a screening service like Preferred411
Outcall (she comes to you) is definitely safer because it isn't likely that a police sting will go to a place they can't control. but that means you have to get the room (you aren't inviting her to your house, right?)
To be safer, though, definitely see a provider who has been verified here.
Look for recent reviews.
Read about how she screens her clients -- if she doesn't screen, that means she is not being safe and that places more risk on you. There is a catch-22 there, though, in that someone who is a strong screener is likely to not be able to validate you as you have no references. Consider joining a screening service like Preferred411
Outcall (she comes to you) is definitely safer because it isn't likely that a police sting will go to a place they can't control. but that means you have to get the room (you aren't inviting her to your house, right?)
- ksmarine1980
- 04-29-2013, 04:18 PM
Thank you, Questor.
How do I know if a provider has been verified here? Does that just mean they have a positive review, or something else? Appreciate your advice.
How do I know if a provider has been verified here? Does that just mean they have a positive review, or something else? Appreciate your advice.
- KCSmutMonkey
- 04-29-2013, 04:45 PM
Below their name it says 'Verified Provider' instead of 'Registered Member'.
- ksmarine1980
- 04-29-2013, 04:58 PM
Thank you Monkey. Am I better off emailing or calling, or does it make any difference?
The provider I'm considering is TempStress Tiff. Not sure if anyone has any insight...
The provider I'm considering is TempStress Tiff. Not sure if anyone has any insight...
- wildcat88
- 04-29-2013, 05:26 PM
You probably contact a provider the way she specifies in her ad. Most seem to prefer PM or email for initial contact.
- purplecloud
- 04-29-2013, 06:44 PM
Don't fall for the old "Sweetie, I'm allergic to those condoms:-( I'm gonna run out to my car and get mine. Be right back!" I call this The Topeka Trick.
- KCQuestor
- 04-29-2013, 10:55 PM
Not many of the Massage providers are "Verified Providers" here. I don't worry too much about the VP status if they have good reviews. Not everyone wants to participate in the board
- ksmarine1980
- 04-29-2013, 11:00 PM
Thanks Questor. Appreciate everyone's input.