I don't know the whole situation, but I'm curious about something...you said she has a lot of good reviews here and I assume she's well known. Why aren't any of the other guys posting warnings on here about her doing this to them? What is it that makes you different? It leads me to believe there is more to the story, especially considering you used the term "dump" her. Sounds like a relationship to me...but that's just my .02
Hope I didn't offend you, but you brought it to the board, so I assume you wanted feedback.