screening

theres a providor i would love to meet....but she screens. i work in the public eye (not le) and would hate to loose my liensce. do they call your work? what do they say/ask?

Depends on the lady in question. Try contacting her directly and just ask (politely of course) what screening tactics she engages in. If your new and have no references, she may indeed contact your work, but usually the ladies are very discrete. Once again, just ask her. Good luck.

When was a newbie I had a provider named Rose, call my office and leave her # and a message to call Rose's Garden Shop. I thought that was very clever and very discreet

It might be helpful to carefully assess the intelligence and capability of the lady in question. I once provided the main switchboard number of my company, so she could call and ask for "Joe Finkelstein." (That wasn't a very reliable screening method anyway, but I digress.) Unfortunately, although she called just a couple of minutes later, all she remembered was "Joe." There were a few different Joe's who worked at the company, so the switchboard operator asked for a last name. And she couldn't remember.

She saw me anyway.

*sigh*

Since then I've been more careful when "screening" an escort before giving her information like that. Luckily, references (either directly or through a screening service like P411 or Date-Check) minimize the need to share such information.

Invest in p411, they are pro's and know how to handle it so you wont have to worry
also they are located in Canada , another plus

I agree with P411 , Sometimes we call + say we are a Dr office , or something discreet .I doubt anyone would call and say what it is really about ! If you have a work website , or your photo / name is online with work etc ,that is a + You are better off seeing a lady who screens or you may walk into a less than fun time ! happy hobbying ! ! !

Get a porn and some lube . . . problem solved . . .