Sex, Lies and Infidelity

For the gentlemen who are married or have a significant other -

How would you feel if you found out that your wife, fiancee or girlfriend was seeing an escort for clandestine trysts?

how can you realistically ask for no double standards when you ask how someone "feels:

how can you realistically ask for no double standards when you ask how someone "feels: Originally Posted by atlcomedy

Agreed. Emotions and logic have little to do with each other.

I imagine the sexless married man would be pissed that she was putting out for someone else and giving nothing to her own husband.

I would be furious if my partner used "our" resources to hobby, couldn't care less if it came from his own bank account.

NO double standard, please! Originally Posted by Nicolette Morgandy

Who says? I've got all kinds of 'em.

For the gentlemen who are married or have a significant other -

How would you feel if you found out that your wife, fiancee or girlfriend was seeing an escort for clandestine trysts?

Disclaimer: NO double standard, please! Originally Posted by Nicolette Morgandy

If you eliminated the married or SO'd men, you'd be out of biz.

how can you realistically ask for no double standards when you ask how someone "feels: Originally Posted by atlcomedy

Gosh man, I took out the disclaimer. Back to the topic.

If you eliminated the married or SO'd men, you'd be out of biz. Originally Posted by John Bull

Uncle Sam, please answer the question: how would you feel if your S/O was seeing an escort?

I would expect it if I was giving him no pussy

I would expect it if I was giving him no pussy Originally Posted by pmac

Becky reminded me its just easier to wack off!

For the gentlemen who are married or have a significant other -

How would you feel if you found out that your wife, fiancee or girlfriend was seeing an escort for clandestine trysts? Originally Posted by Nicolette Morgandy

Actually that is a legit question that deserves a legit answer.


I think if he a had a bigger weenie, I'd be hurt. . .

and I'd be pissed is she was PAYING some dude with a smaller weenie!


I'm single, so I'm just projecting.

NM,

I'm not sure what you're driving at here, but if the answer is Yes then it is going to be a double standard and most double standards don't have a lot of moral justification...they just exist.

If the answer is No then this...

I think if he a had a bigger weenie, I'd be hurt. . .
and I'd be pissed is she was PAYING some dude with a smaller weenie!
I'm single, so I'm just projecting. Originally Posted by WTF

is going to be the type of answer you get. Neither really accomplish much.

Nicolette, before I entered the Demiworld, I would have been pissed. Since I actively participate now, it would be hypocritical to chastise her. We have had less relations with each other more recently, so if something was sparking her, who knows the discussing might be an important restart point for us. I am younger than her, so I do not think that scenario would be happening.

As long as she didn't care if I played around I wouldn't mind at all; my only preference would be that she let me know when she does and vice versa.

Full disclosure: I am single with no attachments.

For the gentlemen who are married or have a significant other -

How would you feel if you found out that your wife, fiancee or girlfriend was seeing an escort for clandestine trysts? Originally Posted by Nicolette Morgandy

I stopped visiting escorts shortly before I met my fiancee, so I'd be very pissed off. On the other hand, if I had continued, I suppose I'd have to accept her doing the same thing, regardless of how I intially felt about it. I'd feel worse about being a hypocrite.