Hello my hobby brothers.
I have come up with the opportunity of being FwB (non hobby related) with a lady who is on the very very heavy side...
My question to you my brothers is, have you ever done a really big lady??? If so, what was the experience like?
Originally Posted by virginguy
Alright. Assuming you're asking for an honest answer, I'll bite.
Having sex with a heavier person does have some challenges. Turn the lights down. Make things (relatively) romantic. She's giving you a gift of herself.
Try to be kind.
Putting a pillow (or 2) underneath the hips will help with getting to her pussy, if that's an issue. It's especially helpful during oral sex. I do that with heavier men all of the time. It'll put the cock right where you need it.
Otherwise, there is just more of her. She's a woman like any other woman. Sometimes, a larger woman is more tight "down there" than many especially if she hasn't had penetrative sex in awhile.
And just enjoy her as an individual. Not as a FWB "fat chick" who you're just fucking to get your rocks off.
Also, sometimes men think because a woman is larger, she can take things harder and rougher. That's not the case with women. Some women like hard and rough but size doesn't determine those parameters of sexuality. So go slowly. Or not. Just judge the person for herself and take the sex from there.
You may be in for a VERY pleasant surprise! Good luck.
Best,
Elisabeth