Threatened by SA girl to press charges

Baer43's Avatar
Met an SA girl a week ago around Pittsburgh PA. We agreed to meet for what she wanted and she came to my place for maybe an hour.I regretted it since because something was off and she appears to have a habit. Ever since she's been blowing my phone up every day for more help. I told her I can't help her repeatedly and she said she is going to press charges for solicitation possibly worse.I have screenshots of all the texts, I never mention sex or anything in them. I can't afford lawyers, I'm divorced and my ex gets a a large majority of what I make. I am hoping some folks have some advice or can help.
See your PM. I messaged you.
Baer43's Avatar
Thank you for replying.


in case anyone is curious and wants to see the texts and might offer some help or advice based on those.


http://s375.photobucket.com/user/baerrhugz/library/
Agent220's Avatar
Extortion is a m!@÷$#^&
The_Waco_Kid's Avatar
Thank you for replying.


in case anyone is curious and wants to see the texts and might offer some help or advice based on those.


http://s375.photobucket.com/user/baerrhugz/library/ Originally Posted by Baer43

you are a liar. you clearly are a multi-millionaire who has 10's of thousands of dollars every month to spend on countless SA whores yet you are so cheap and/or stupid to think you can get a {forbidden topic} addict on SA for SW one-fuck prices.

so which is it? are you stupid, or are you loaded and cheaper than a wino?
Extortion is a m!@÷$#^& Originally Posted by Agent220
It’s also a felony
you are a liar. you clearly are a multi-millionaire who has 10's of thousands of dollars every month to spend on countless SA whores yet you are so cheap and/or stupid to think you can get a {forbidden topic} addict on SA for SW one-fuck prices.

so which is it? are you stupid, or are you loaded and cheaper than a wino? Originally Posted by The_Waco_Kid
��bye. She has no right to text him out of nowhere and ask for ANHTHING. He’s not her parents or significant other. He owes her nothing.
Gabby_Belle's Avatar
This shit pisses me off & is one of the reasons that makes it harder for us to screen properly now -because of dumb cunts like this ruining it for the rest of us.

I honestly wouldn't worry too much on this -because she's advertised on SA & you have texts to cover your ass, so she would out herself if she was dumb enough to try & file a police report. Just don't go telling her you have those texts sved & bringing up the fact she's on that site just incase she goes & changes her number or pulls her profile.
Baer43's Avatar
Am I ridiculous for worrying about her being crazy enough to accuse me of forcing myself on her/?
the way she wrote some of that has me concerned, claiming she didn't come over to have sex and I used her....


The whole thing freaks me out. Last night I was wondering if her or this guy who "beat" her up would be paying me a visit in middle of the night.


also I have screenshots of her profile and messages to me from SA.I would have posted those as well but was not sure if they were allowed.
^pretty sure her “dude” is more worried about her not you
HoustonDan's Avatar
Hey, Baer43, take this thread over to the Sugar Dating forum. It should be available to you about midway down the page.

I’ve got some stuff for you if you put it there and get it out of this general forum. Thanks
Baer43's Avatar
Is that Premium only?



Hey, Baer43, take this thread over to the Sugar Dating forum. It should be available to you about midway down the page.

I’ve got some stuff for you if you put it there and get it out of this general forum. Thanks Originally Posted by HoustonDan
Don’t be a fucking pussy. If you can’t see right through this shit and know that she can’t do shit then get off the sites. You embolden those dumb ducks and turns them into scammers and not hookers. If you can’t afford $100 for all night then you deserve to get fucked with because that’s all you are doing to them. How can you bitch about her lying or misrepresenting if you spent your last dollar on a membership to a sugar daddy site
Gabby_Belle's Avatar
ahhh, now I've read all the way through the texts & all I can say is both parties are in the wrong. Dude, if you can't even afford $50 then you have no business on a sugar site or kinda in the hobby for that matter. Sugar sites are marketed specifically to girls that are not comfortable with the idea of escorting & have these half baked ideas because thats how its marketed. How do you not expect to be asked for money when your literally are signing up on the "generous" party end. Really, it's all there in print. Seeking Arrangements is set up as a "Sugar Daddy" site -duh.

But on the other hand she shouldn't be threatening you -which is ultimately an empty threat if you can't see that. Duh, she can't do anything.

Do yourself a favor -stay off the sugar daddy sites, dude.
Baer43's Avatar
I told her I didn't have any money because I wanted her to leave me alone and I didn't want to see her again. If I wanted to see her again I have plenty to play with which is none of her business. We only agreed to meet one time. She started bugging me for more money the morning AFTER we met. That's not how arrangements work, generous is one thing when it comes to an arrangement with monthly or weekly allowances. But asking someone to be an ATM less than 12 hours after meeting is another, Bugging me for 50 was 6 days after, and again I didn't want to see her again for numerous reasons(obvious habit, unstable) so I told her I couldn't.