How do you get your SO yo give you Head?

There are just ..so many excuses....not tonight, in my mouth?....I'll do you..If you do me.....oo.ok?

Never a problem. I don't even have to ask.

Easy. Divorce her.

This is one reason I hobby so much.

Begging and pleading helps. lol

Seriously, some ladies love to give oral and others do not. My wife gives me head but she has to be in the mood. Most if not all ladies love getting oral so normally I go down on my wife for a while and then either ask for head or she initiates it usually with 69. Unfortunately her teeth get in the way and after 20 years of marriage I do not have the heart to tell her that it hurts after a while. I wish I could get some of the ladies on here to give her some blow job lessons lol. Do not get me wrong I love her just the same and sex with her is still awesome even after 20 years. That is what I love about the hobby is that I can see other ladies for a good blow job without pressuring my wife for one.

Never a problem. I don't even have to ask. Originally Posted by Budman

"I don"t dare ask Mrs. Wilson!"



Wilson WiLsOn

Budman is a VERY lucky man!!! :-) Early in marriage was great but now it's like taboo...always excuses.

Wait a minute. . .

You mean I don't need to pay a provider to do that? My wife would do that if i just asked politely?

Huh?

Whoda thunk it.

Offer her a little spending money...tell her that you have some spare cash in your account but only the little head knows the combination and it'll only come out if she talks very nicely to him.

I concur w/ Textodd11. Why complicate matters.

Maybe a blindfold...open your mouth and get a suprize

I came across this article a while back - about the barriers to getting more head. My favorite part was where an ex porn star - Nina Hartley - said that she gives her man as many bj's as he wants as long as they don't last more than 5 minutes.

http://www.seductioninsider.com/sex_tips/blowjobs.shtml

funny i see this thread. if you go to google home page and start your search with:

"why wont my girl"

the google auto complete will come up with:
"why wont my girlfriend give me head"

LOL seems you are not the only one asking

BTW, i heard good things about this: oralformulaone.com

As a woman chiming in.. I do not understand why women do not do this all the time. It is a turn on for me. I mean really, why wouldnt your wman want u so turned on by what she is doing to you? Wouldnt that turn her on?
Never did understand why more women do not like this act... but I am one of few that love it.

Awhile ago, I went out with 4 of my girlfriends all of which are married.

Over drinks, we talked about other girls and cute guys at the bar. But then the conversation turned to giving their guys head. (Probably by me Lmao) I was so SHOCKED to hear that NONE of them gave head. I couldn't quite understand it so I had to know why. One of them had the excuse that it was nasty... All the others said that they had a huge gag reflex and that a man couldn't possibly find that attractive. Seeing that they all know what I do for a living... One I am not aloud to be around their husbands of course (That was a joke.. I am totally just kidding)... But they asked me about it. I explained to them that they truly had no idea what men found attractive.. Men don't care if you gag.. some actually think that its hot and ecspecially if she gags and then keeps going. To make a long story short... 3 out of the 4 women felt that it made them unattractive and they weren't sexy while doing it.

So if you say things like... I want a bj, or I like how it feels, or I this or I that... try saying Baby, YOU look so hot when you look up at me, YOUR mouth feels so good on my body. Remember, the "men are visual creatures" point brought up in another thread... women are verbal and emotional.. Just my 2 cents... which is backed up by my major of Relationship psychology and Human sexuality.