Is Good Ole'Fashioned Intercourse Becoming Obsolete?

I'm thinking that it's taking a back seat to blow jobs, oral servicing and kink. For many. Or perhaps it's just my impression because I tend to attract patrons who are wishing to explore alternative sexuality.

But I'm just not seeing that men are enjoying, for the most part, a good old fashioned fucking. What I AM seeing is men wish to lay back and just enjoy being serviced. This is completely fine. It's what I enjoy as well. Sometimes.

Although with some people, there are physical limitations and that precludes them from enjoying a more vigorous time together. I understand that. But when those variables aren't in the equation, is your number one pleasure just oral?

I believe for most, it is. I know that most of my female friends would prefer oral sex to penetration. Which is something that I don't believe that I will understand in this lifetime.

Wanted to start a dialogue about it.

Warm kisses,
Elisabeth

Most men can have sex with their wives but their wives don't want to give blowjobs anymore. Oral, both giving and receiving, as well as kissing and conversation are the main reason I do this. Also, I can never get off for a second cup with just plain old fucking. So yes, most men are in it for something other than plain old-fashioned intercourse.

THAT makes absolute sense, pipefitter. Thanks for the input.

Elisabeth

Elizabeth, I like it all but I want to finish with intercourse. Now bend over and grab your ankles.

If you were in Dallas today, it would be my absolute pleasure. I'm in such a mood this morning!

Hugs,
Elisabeth

"Good Ol Intercourse" nothing like it i personally still enjoy just that,even that old standard missionary thing,the look in your partners eyes when you are connected in that way is one that I will never grow tired of, ok,yes there is some fun and unusual variations,an ankle in each hand looking at yourself dissapearing in your partner is HOTT, just my opinion

I agree with pipfitter 100% but I'll go a little further. Don't know if its my age or the fact that I've come to terms with certain aspects of my sexuality. I want to try different (somewhat kinky) types of sex that I wouldn't have thought twice of when I was younger.
Yes, I often times want my provider to take the lead as she is the more experienced and will probably have more insight as to what my needs are and what I will enjoy.

As an old fart who can manage a pop every other week or so, I like it all. I like some kink (although there are boundaries I'm still finding out about), I like a good (or even a bad) BBBJ, I like caressing, closeness, sensuality and cuddling. But I reserve the pop for intercourse. Now, I prefer cowgirl or rear cowgirl. But a couple of months ago, I visited with a great lady who put a lot of work into her cowgirl, but it was doing nothing for me. I didn't cum until I changed to missionary. Yes, I want a BBBJ in a session, but not to pop.

I enjoy seeing providers in order to experiment and push boundaries. The last couple of sessions I have had included giving a provider a facial and a couple of COB releases. When I book a date with a provider, I want to experience the full gamut of sexual activity to include "good old fashioned fucking". I think Elizabeth put it correctly, at least for me-- men want to be serviced. As for the oral fixation, I think it is pretty much self-explanatory. When a provider gives a BBBJ, there is no awkward moment when it comes to putting on the cover. It is just a natural flow from kissing, groping, making out, to the BBBJ and/or DATY. It is even better when the provider swallows. One of the best sessions I ever had was with a provider who did nothing but suck my cock for an hour. She rang my bell multiple times and never once did either of us leave bed.

All of these points are on target, as the old advice to wives goes, "if his dick isn't in your mouth, it's in someone elses".

I think what has hurt plain old fashioned intercoarse is the advent of deseases that have no cure. (ie, HIV). Simply put, covered sex is the ONLY type that any prudent provider, or hobbyist, will partake of, and as good as condoms are, the sensation is lacking, especially in older guys.

So, bare back oral satisfaction becomes a much more pleasureable act, especially if the provider has honed her skills.

My late wife and I had great sex, (every type) for years, and it is difficult to enjoy covered sex after a lifetime of that. And,

I have great covered sex with my ATF, but of course, the other menu items are what really inspires a man of my age to keep coming back. In all honesty, many men my age would rather eat a beautiful womans pussy than do anything else. And, we have had years to hone our skills.

Principally the aspect of fucking is perferred for me over any other sexual activity. I couldn't imagin booking an overnight and not being utterly drained and tired the next day.

While I can say with all honesty that I truly do enjoy a good ole fashion fuck, be it mish, K9, CG or whatever position, a BBBJTCCIM/NQNS is something that was never given or offered me by my SO of 40 yrs even though I'd requested it on too many occasions to number. I can only speak for myself, but I find myself seeking this sort of pleasure after being denied it for so many years! But, I also don't want to just lay there and be serviced so to speak, I very much enjoy spending ample and fair share of my time with a provider attempting to "give" as much or more than I recieve!

This is something I actually came to terms with recently lol. I am old fashioned. I love bbbj, dfk, and mish. I like making eye contact,too.

yes

I like it all. Everything except intercourse is forplay, at least for me.