Is it important to the client?

Is it important to the client about whether he likes women who put on a lot of make up and do their hair and nails and have perfume and jewelry high heels etc. I was getting ready for a visit yesterday and spending all this time on my hair and my make up and my nails and getting the right jewelry. Picking out the sexiest panties and bras and lingerie. And then I got to wondering how much of this is just a complete waste of time? How many of you guys like a lady who’s all put together and looks like she’s ready to go out to the clubs? How many of you like women with more natural look with barely any make up and just plain hairstyle and no jewelry no painted nails? Or I assume most are in the middle where they like a little but not too much. Just trying To decide what is most crucial to do and where to focus my attention. If nobody cares about painted toenails I’m not gonna mess with that’s a pain in the butt. I don’t mind doing my make up but sometimes I think I don’t have to do as much as I do and I would go out and to a dark club. Or maybe I don’t need any jewelry if nobody really cares then I wouldn’t spend time picking out what jewelry to wear. Or maybe you guys are just happy if or fresh out of the shower and clean and I don’t care about the rest of it. What does everybody think about that?
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A most excellent question!

Speaking for myself and ONLY for myself, I will always ask the lady NOT to "dress up". Including makeup!!! Just lends an air of comfort, according to me!

Then there are the women who feel "naked" without makeup! That's another story!!


Is it important to the client about whether he likes women who put on a lot of make up and do their hair and nails and have perfume and jewelry high heels etc. I was getting ready for a visit yesterday and spending all this time on my hair and my make up and my nails and getting the right jewelry. Picking out the sexiest panties and bras and lingerie. And then I got to wondering how much of this is just a complete waste of time? How many of you guys like a lady who’s all put together and looks like she’s ready to go out to the clubs? How many of you like women with more natural look with barely any make up and just plain hairstyle and no jewelry no painted nails? Or I assume most are in the middle where they like a little but not too much. Just trying To decide what is most crucial to do and where to focus my attention. If nobody cares about painted toenails I’m not gonna mess with that’s a pain in the butt. I don’t mind doing my make up but sometimes I think I don’t have to do as much as I do and I would go out and to a dark club. Or maybe I don’t need any jewelry if nobody really cares then I wouldn’t spend time picking out what jewelry to wear. Or maybe you guys are just happy if or fresh out of the shower and clean and I don’t care about the rest of it. What does everybody think about that? Originally Posted by SweetSuzanna
Unique_Carpenter's Avatar
Suzanna,
It all depends.
Seriously
Are you going out? Are you staying in?
Is it a long date? Is it only an hour? Is it an overnight or weekend?
Even with the same two people there's multiple answers.
But, always have a good set of nails just because.
Thanks Suzanna for the question. IMHO the answer differs based on the client. I always appreciate the extra mile a lady goes to entertain me.
Fresh out of the shower naked with a robe on little makeup would be nice.
Don't over do it with the make up. Those all over body sprays are nice. Bathrobe and naked underneath is sexy too.
Excellent question. I think most "gentleman" appreciate the effort made, at least I do personally. Some ladies see these efforts as part of their presenting themselves in the best way for their "business". My ATF used to say that all the prep was like putting on her "suit of armour". Either way don't see how the extra effort hurts....
Knight69Fun's Avatar
I'm not fond of much makeup. Elegant nails are nice - that doesn't mean talons.
Clothing can go either way, with lots of interesting stops in the middle. I'm particularly fond of half-shirts that hang away from her abdomen, and a short skirt or short shorts.
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Good queston SS
Forget the perfume, scents , body sprays and oils. Don’t need any tell tale lingering scents. I don’t want to leave smelling like smoke, food or scents that I didn’t come in with. Makeup is good, just not so much it gets on my clothes. A lady with proper makeup enhances the visual experience. But some ladies need to take the time for free lessons/tips from Nordstrom’s or Mary Kay (there are others). Overdone makeup does not flatter you...
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This is a good one Susanna. Personally I don't think the whole nine yards is necessary. I have no SO, so scents are important. Just like in real world dating. Lipstick and eye shadow is plenty. Run a comb through your hair. A nice matching bra and panties. You can skip the dress and shoes, put on a robe. I would skip the jewelry. It tends to get in the way. If you know who is visiting, you can cater to their likes.
That’s funny cuz I never get nails done. Lucky if I have a chance to paint them! Lol
Fresh out of the shower naked with a robe on little makeup would be nice. Originally Posted by Lubeman
So a wet tangled head of hair is good enough? I can do that!
Good queston SS Originally Posted by yourdesire
Yay thank you! I’m not getting yelled at or offended or anything! I like compliments thank you very much dear
This is a good one Susanna. Personally I don't think the whole nine yards is necessary. I have no SO, so scents are important. Just like in real world dating. Lipstick and eye shadow is plenty. Run a comb through your hair. A nice matching bra and panties. You can skip the dress and shoes, put on a robe. I would skip the jewelry. It tends to get in the way. If you know who is visiting, you can cater to their likes. Originally Posted by TailHooked
Thank you for the compliment! I hear robes being mentioned a lot I guess I need to get a robe. Do you mean like the terry cloth kind from hotels? Because I can just swipe one of those next time I’m at a hotel LOL or there’s the silky , way overpriced Victoria’s Secret ones.