BBBJ

Hey I have been providing for a couple of yrs, but i dont get as many reviews im assuming because of the services i DONT provide. I am very conscious about my physical health and I have done alot of research on STDs. I dont provide any uncovered services because I feel like it would be a risk to my health. As far as Ive heard when i talk to my doctors etc, STDs can be contracted through unprotected bjs. Does anyone else believe this to be true? I hate missing out on meeting cool hobbyists because i only do cbj. Alot of guys dont respect that, and so I lose business. I mean what do I do? I like to play, but I like to play safely. Its impossible to get 100% authentic paperwork (to prove they are clean). Is this a valid concern? and for those providers who have 50 and 100 reviews of all bbbj, do you ever fear risking your health? I mean I am just curious because I guess im stuck in my old fashioned ways. i need feedback. please help! I know that i am a nice quality provider, but often miss out because of the cbj factor.... somebody give me some input. I especially get scared in baton rouge since it has the second highest HIV rate in the USA. I am not so quick to do a bbbbj there at all! somebody please give me some input

You might want to look at the fact that all the ladies that do BBBj haven't gotten an STD.

Google it, its low risk and I see dfk and DAtY on review, the risk is both ways

respect[/b] that, and so I lose business Originally Posted by Sexy coffee; Alot of guys dont [B

If you aren't GFE then that's your choice. I respect that. Frankly, I think most guys do respect it. Its just that most guys want at least GFE service.

I am a health conscience guy and would never partake in any activity I think is unsafe. I do DATY and only see ladies that perform BBBJ, I have researched and read the studies and articles. Is it possible, supposedly, about the same chances as winning a power ball lottery with only one ticket purchased. Difficuklt for the researchers to document how STD transmiited as the vast majority of STD recipients did indeed have intercourse as well as oral. For me , the chances of me winning the lottery or so slim I do not play, seems like a waste of money to me. So, having the same odds of a STD I do partake in unprotected oral and I have never had an STD, ever.

I've been doing BBBJ for years and have yet to contract anything. I think the risk is pretty low where as BBFS has much higher rates. If statistics started showing that bbbj was really risky I would start doing cbj. Hell, being in the hobby is risky enough.

This might be a little off subject. But I like Outdoorsman, as well as a lot of otehr guys enjoy doing DATY. Heard a medical story this week about how HPV is causing tongue and throat cancer in guys more than mere smoking.

somebody please give me some input Originally Posted by Sexy coffee

don't start threads like this. Just sayin'...

I learned in my biology classes, saliva it the very first step in the disgestive process. Anything going into the mouth gets moistened with saliva and prepares it for the next step, which would be masticating (OH MY!). Your salivary glands don't know its an uncovered tallywhacker! I personally HATE the taste of latex!

my mom is a nurse and she said there are no known cases of getting something serious from BJ's but don't swallow. If you have a ulcer in your stomach or some kind of stomach disease you CAN be affected by swollowing certain stuff that is tainted with staph infection..but staph is not considered a STD..
Staph infection can break out into a boil on body parts and it's not pretty. A puss filled boil on your pee pee or mouth is not good.

After that graphic description, I'm glad I'm a spitter! LMAO!!!!

There IS a low risk doing BBBJ and even DATY, but using mouthwash right after reduces the risk. Also, for the girls, avoid CIM. I am not much of a gambler and actually prefer ladies who insist on covers for everything.

I dont provide any uncovered services because I feel like it would be a risk to my health. As far as Ive heard when i talk to my doctors etc, STDs can be contracted through unprotected bjs. Originally Posted by Sexy coffee

Did your doctor say anything remotely similar about daty and kissing? In some of your other reviews daty, and kissing are on your menu. Unless those guys were using dental dams for daty, or wearing face masks that was uncovered oral. Same risks. So why is one more acceptable for you over the other.....business right?

Its impossible to get 100% authentic paperwork (to prove they are clean). Is this a valid concern? Originally Posted by Sexy coffee

Just hypothetically, if a hobbyist provided this to you would you be open to providing BBBJ service if the paperwork was sufficient? They are not that hard to get if reputable. I had to provide one to an HDH provider once and it wasn't too much of an inconvience for me at the time.

I especially get scared in baton rouge since it has the second highest HIV rate in the USA. Originally Posted by Sexy coffee

Are you talking about second highest rate city for hiv registers in the USA? I find that surprising, I'm fairly sure Atlanta is close to the top of that list as well. I know at one point less than two years ago in North Carolina they said 50 percent of the black populous there was affected with HIV, Aids, or herpes. They also say nationally 1 in 4 have herpes and aren't aware of it. All scary statistics.......

...........I lose business. I mean what do I do?..............and for those providers who have 50 and 100 reviews of all bbbj, do you ever fear risking your health? Originally Posted by Sexy coffee

Short answer to your first question from an opurtune hobbyist on the fence about seeing you would be to provide BBBJ, but if your heart isn't in it or your are uncomfortable with it.....it will suck anyway(no pun intended). So stick with what makes you comfortable. Or do market research yourself and offer it for a small time and see if the monetary benefits change?

Well another way of referring to the providers (who have not changed names) who do BBBJ.....if they provide this and not one of their clients has reported they contracted anything I guess that sums it up. But not really. Even when guys have reported in the past certain providers were unhealthy it has been erased, and stricken from being dicussed on board. Its passed more backchannel where not many see or hear it.

Now with ladies that do CBJ only....well we just wouldn't know if she did in fact have something that would show as unsafe orally....although of course herpes can still be contracted from oral covered cbj. All it takes is contact......and sometimes visual signs of herpes aren't always there, as they can clear up with medications and flare up at other times. So hopefully it shows during visual inspection.......they seem to be more internally inflamed for female affected by it........so turn the light on an c'mon lol.

Some even believe.....well sheed if she's using a condom for a bj.......maybe she has something already and she not telling me and trying her best not to spread orally. Because that would really affect business......

Alot of guys dont respect that, and so I lose business. Originally Posted by Sexy coffee

If you aren't GFE then that's your choice. I respect that. Frankly, I think most guys do respect it. Its just that most guys want at least GFE service. Originally Posted by Stick1969

I have a different perspective of what constitutes a GFE.

I personally prefer everything covered (some exceptions have occurred) simply as a minimization of risk. BBBJ does not define, for me, GFE vs non-GFE.

I know that some guys consider the matter a deal-breaker for them, but for me, a GFE is one where the time together was a matter of hugs and kisses that lead to more pleasurable moments, where the lady really was into our time together, and where the clock was a distant thing and the flow of interaction was natural and even a bit spontaneous.

BBBJ is not what makes a GFE. A GFE is a good connection, and as with all prior RL GFs, some are better than others, but all were at least wanting to make a connection that was enjoyable.

JMHO, FWIW.

I can tell you, as a provider that was against bbbj for years..
I'd never had guys complain when I did cbj's only. But when I started doing bbbj for certain regulars, they became MORE regular. You're not giving up your right to choose who you do it with. And it makes all the difference in the world when it comes to the reaction you get. And, not to beat a dead horse but I didn't do daty OR cbj's at that time because of my apprehensiveness. Now I do both, at my own discretion. It's an "either, or" situation. Either spit kills or it don't... Lol