Verification question

Hermosa's Avatar
Hi there. I turn to you guys because I think you are about as "all knowing" as anybody else I could talk to.
I'm working with a lovely lady that I might get to visit with. She is a member on this site. She informed me that she needed things that I'm assuming she can see and get here. Like, am I a verified player? To I have listings of who I've played with, when and who they are? I'm assuming that she can see other postings I put out on the many comment sections. I would think that if she can, she can gt a feel as to what kind of guest I will be. Can she not see who I've been with, (we're a small community and I'm sure the ladies know who's around), ask them if they remember me rather than asking me to provide information already available?
Being just on this site, with the limited ladies here limits my ability to play but that is safer than being all over and on many sites. Just me. I'm just curious as to what can the ladies see here, as members, that can be used to validate the guest? I'm not criticizing the lady as I think she is playing safe. Also, i have had good luck meeting the ladies I've met so far. I'm just thinking I shouldn't need to give information that is clearly available to us on this site. Am I mssing something?
Ladies can see exactly what you can see, except for the private sections of the site; ROS sectionin reviews/Mens lounges/any private comments in threads. I made a more comprehensive answer in your national thread, but giving your personal real-world info to ANY lady for verification is not a smart move in general...and particularly now in NM with the current "leaker" being fed that exact info from that exact source with some twisted vendetta to publish it.

If a particular lady requires your real-life info for verification.....move on quickly to someone else that doesn't.
Hermosa's Avatar
Thanks. I will check out the national thread. I did what I would not normally do with this girl. Not too worried about her, just don't plan on repeating it. Good to know what thet can see.
thanks again camouflage.
CryptKicker's Avatar
You should know sir from the problems that we are having in this forum with outing posts that you should absolutely not share real world info with a person in the hobby. You are only asking for problems sir.