DATY Specialists Note!

Have always wondered what qualifies as "good" DATY. I mean, achieving the "O" might well be the end result, but the journey seems worth as much attention as the end (did that make sense?).

Would love to hear from the ladies as to what in their mind makes DATY "exceptional"...rather than just "good".

Mind...body...and soul have to be connected. When you find someone who enjoys it...take your time!! Nothing worse than feeling like you have to rush...unless you're long overdue! (lol) Some women don't enjoy DATY at all...and/or at least from someone other than her SO. That's why I think some providers don't offer DATY.

Technique helps...but, every woman is different...WAY DIFFERENT. The key to achieving the ultimate *O* from DATY...is learning her body...have her comminicate what works for her...and apply exactly what she tells you!!

I'm a Squirter but not everyone brings it out. I like soft strokes fiv, and lots of licky licky....
Your only as good as my squirting takes off lol

So a girl can tell if its Fake Cow?

What Likinikki says, listen to what she says, or ask if she doesn't offer you direction unless she's already trying to thigh crush your head. Then you know you got it right.

What Likinikki says, listen to what she says, or ask if she doesn't offer you direction unless she's already trying to thigh crush your head. Then you know you got it right. Originally Posted by hd

+1.... I concur!!!

I love Daty but not everyone does it right... I just suggest other fun things to go and take charge it works for me lol.... I have only had one guy who was able to make me squirt a couple months ago that was a shocker for me..

"Practice, man, practice. You'll get there!"

What PD & Likkinikki said x2

I concur, each person is different

a good guide to how a guy does daty is to watch him eating a softserve cone from Dairy Queen!! lol

Dallas, does this mean a good guide for how a woman will BJ/DT is to watch her eating a banana split at Dairy Queen???

lol--maybe so!
{note to self...go eat at DQ tomorrow on my way to san Antonio! lol}

I enjoy DATY. I like exploring the playground. I also like the responses from the ladies I've had the pleasure of playing with. But cunnilingus isn't easy. It requires skills, most important of which is listening. If my companion wants to have fun she tells me what to do. Like most guys, I don't have the mind-reader gene but I can take instruction.



There is nothing quite like the feeling of accomplishment when my companion is shaking and shuddering uncontrollably with sounds of ecstasy coming from her lips. That is when I know I got it right.

"Practice, man, practice. You'll get there!" Originally Posted by PDid

I may not be perfect but I love to practice.