Best way contact me,

Since 2 people who have never seen me, (seth and boring who wouldnt give references) think its too hard to schedule (not that i would see either anyway) I decided to make it easy.

I think i mentioned this all in a thread before but perhaps it deserves its own.

Calling.

During business hours. 10-6. Same for weekends. I do not answer outside of those hours. Coincidentally those are the hours I'm available.

Missed me during those hours?

I dont answer the phone when i am in a store, at someones house (friends, family etc, no outcalls) or obviously during an appointment. So leave a clear message, and state that its okay to call you back at that number. If theres only certain times that you can get a call at that number please make sure to mention that. Its no fun at all to call someone back and have their wife answer. And i doubt its fun on your end either.

Emails.

I check emails every morning, before bed, and once or twice during the middle of the day. If you want an appointment in an hour or two emailing is not a good way to set it up. If you want to schedule something ahead of time, email is great. I will get back to you.

Email etiquette/ call etiquette

"hey baby whats up" instead of hello. Sorry click.

"random mtv wannabe rapper gibberish" click.

"Very specific and or graphic questions about services" either click or a link to my website where services are listed.

"Polite and or discrete question about services" I will give a discrete answer. But I think we all know its a bad idea to get overly graphic in any sort of discussion......

Actually i know that about 25% of men in this hobby have no idea that its a bad idea, but i can still have hope that you'll learn.


"refuse to screen" sorry but thats a no go. I'm newby friendly but they have to at least give me some way to verify employment.

No a work ID does not verify employment.
1. LE has fake documentation
2. By the time LE is at the door its my word against his anyway and I'm leaving in cuffs. So i avoid that possibility.

"ask about drugs"

Nope dont do them, dont want to be around people who do so thats a click.

Addendum. Pot is a drug too.

"send me an email from earthlink with that annoying spam blocker"

Perhaps this is just a personal pet peeve but dont send me an email that i cant answer without waiting to get approval from your stupid mailbox. I dont even answer those anymore, just straight to spam.


"using me as a reference if i never actually saw you"
Umm no. Exchanging an email or two does not mean that your okay and i wont tell someone else that you are if thats all we have done.

"otherwise using me as a reference"

Sure go for it, i dont mind. incidentally though please give the other provider something that she can say so i know who you are. Sorry but "hey did you see a guy named frank 4 months ago" is much more likely to get a "umm i have no idea" then what you want.

If you have a very unusual name that might not apply.


PM on here or GBN

Basically the same as email. When i check my email and see a notification that i got a PM i check it. But I only check email a few times a day. So if you want to set something up same day thats not the best way.

**if you are calling during business hours and have tried a million times without getting through**

1 of several things happened.

We talked once and i got a very bad feeling about you.

We saw each other and it just didnt click for me, probably me not you, but i would rather not see each other again.

Or someone reported your phone number on a black list. All these sites have them for providers and there are several provider only sites that have them too. I check those every day to see if theres new numbers i need to block.

Maybe you did it, maybe you didnt. I'm not taking the chance. Sorry.

And by "blocked" i mean blocked. I am not ignoring you. I use an internet phone for business that literally has a block feature. I put a number on it and the company automatically screens the call so it never comes through. If you wound up on this list because your # was reported somewhere then I'm sorry but I'm safety first.


If there are any other questions feel free to PM me or post them here and I'll check more often today then usual.

Oh and instant messenger. Its janessaskye on yahoo. same as here. I'm on while i check my email.

You state how to get ahold of you, and I did not have references? I have never tried calling you after the first time I seen your ad and your were horribily rude, you got me confused sweetie for references I have several with UPSCALE providers who do not use Backpage as a means of supporting themselves.

Also, it's pretty simple here to read the facts it's just not me or Boring Iowa, it's everyone who has ever posted about you states you are hard to get ahold of, so while you want to TRY to push the blame on us two, well nice attempt.

Your a sexy, but very rude woman, mouthy and disrespectful towards other providers when you are no better, and posting statements about you is a waste of time, for no offense your nothing but silicone filled with a nasty disposition.

And I think everyone is realizing it.

You talk about screening and LE alot Janessa and you use the hottest way of advertising in the business, Backpage??? C'mon please, and by the way your information about calls and emails is BS, sweetie been in the networking and IT business for 20 years you have no idea of what you are talking about.

As for LE it's simple just by you placing a ad on BP it's solicitation, and your IP address is locked into their system, so if a warrant is ever requested OH MY!

Conitnue with BP and hope nothing happens like it did on e.com Just a tip for someone who is so smart in the I.T. business such as yourself.

You state how to get ahold of you, and I did not have references? I have never tried calling you after the first time I seen your ad and your were horribily rude, you got me confused sweetie for references I have several with UPSCALE providers who do not use Backpage as a means of supporting themselves.

Also, it's pretty simple here to read the facts it's just not me or Boring Iowa, it's everyone who has ever posted about you states you are hard to get ahold of, so while you want to TRY to push the blame on us two, well nice attempt.

Your a sexy, but very rude woman, mouthy and disrespectful towards other providers when you are no better, and posting statements about you is a waste of time, for no offense your nothing but silicone filled with a nasty disposition.

And I think everyone is realizing it. Originally Posted by sethg

LOL self important much seth? That part wasnt about you.

Oh and hate to break it to you but everyone uses BP. Pretty much everywhere in the country. If you actually knew anything about this hobby you might know that.

As to disrespectful? You havent earned an ounce of it. Your a whiny punk whose kind of a stalker on top of it. Do something to earn respect ( try starting out with politeness on the phone. If you didnt like whatever I said to you then I guarantee you started it).

Oh and no one wants to see you. You should see some of the PM's that go around about you. You have a nasty attitude with everyone, and you know what? You get back what you put out in this world and thats why people are nasty back to you.

Learn the golden rule and grow up.

You talk about screening and LE alot Janessa and you use the hottest way of advertising in the business, Backpage??? C'mon please, and by the way your information about calls and emails is BS, sweetie been in the networking and IT business for 20 years you have no idea of what you are talking about.

As for LE it's simple just by you placing a ad on BP it's solicitation, and your IP address is locked into their system, so if a warrant is ever requested OH MY!

Conitnue with BP and hope nothing happens like it did on e.com Just a tip for someone who is so smart in the I.T. business such as yourself. Originally Posted by sethg

Seth your a moron. You try to claim this internet knowledge here and with your other name on GBN and your always wrong and people always smack you down because you have no idea what your talking about.

Placing an ad is not solicitation. Your simply completely wrong about that. And your IP address never goes to BP. They dont track it. LOL this is like when you tried to claim that you could look at peoples CC numbers from their BP ad. Which is laughable.

Frankly you come off as a highschooler telling stories trying to impress people with how much you know when to anyone who actually knows how things work you just look like an idiot.

Oh and BP might be based out of scottsale, but they run their card processing and all the info out of servers in Australia. Anyone who actually knew about IT could easily backtrack all the emails you get from them and see that.

Thats why they havent been hassled and shut down the way CL was for this. Because they would have to get an international warrant, get australia to go along with it and then extradite people and information from that country to this one.

All over a misdemeanor. Now granted cops do some pretty stupid stuff with taxpayer money from time to time. But thats a hell of a stretch.

You can go right ahead thinking its going to happen someday though. Maybe do us all a favor and hold your breath till it happens. Whatever makes you happy.

As for BP they do lock in your ip, Federal Law requires that every ad on any adult site that uses adult content is locked in, also as for using prepaid credit cards which all providers use can be traced also, and because someone's server system is overseas does not mean information in the US cannot be shared.

Other knowledge, Eros, P411, Ter, Redbook, your ELITE providers use those sites, not BP, Most commonly BP is a LE attracter unlike the others that require some type of membership, so that is wrong also.

I think Seth is a moron, but I also see alot that he brings to this board is factual, I also see you both have attitudes that are what would appear to be rude.
Just a thought, use the PM to lamblast each other and save us hobbyists the time from seeing all this personal mumbo jumbo.

Finally, Janessa I have seen Great reviews and also mediaocre statements about your services and compliment anyone that can make money, however your statements about Kay and Couture were rude and you never even apologized to them, my thought is if they were there in DSM everyday advertising like you as well if Morgan ever came out of retirement, you would be very low on clients.

For the reviews I see on you are the same repetitive client after client, very seldom someone new.

Good luck to you and Seth in your personal battle, I think I can speak for everyone when I say you both do not know what you are talking about. Use the PM!

Great post Xtreme. But, I have to say that to a point you're wrong about BP. Elite providers, low volume, high volume providers, etc., will use BP in certain areas because that's the only place to advertise for some cities/small towns. Of course, that's if they tour.

Janessa, you would be incorrect about BP. BP is owned by the Village Voice who is based out of NYC. As for the CC info, I don't know about that. But, they have been hassled by AG's and lawmakers, but since they have more money and more attorney's to back them up than what Craigslist did, they can fight it and win. BP brings in over a million a month from the adult advertising alone. They're not going to give that up and that's why they changed their rules when it came to the ladies advertising.

Every site that offers advertising for escorts will be a target for LE period, but BP makes it easier as Xtreme said because BP doesn't require a membership and references to make sure you're legit. But, also keep in mind that LE is also a member on pretty much every site too.

I adore smart men.

Ummm.. and what exactly was said about me to begin with? Someone fill me in on this....
Im not really sure why my name would be brought up by you anyway J... especially when you were getting slammed Im pretty sure I stated theres no reason to bash any other providers MEANING you. If you're not smart enough to read between the lines you really should just not speak at all...
You have a lot of unwarranted negativity directed toward your fellow providers... Class goes alot farther than ass, you might want to take all the money you make and try a finishing school and learn to act like a lady...
Ohhh and when you want to try to act like you know it all, you might want to make sure half the stuff say actually makes sense..
But you're only hurting yourself with your childish negativity.
And this is the ONLY time I will make a statement regarding this situation and I prefer in the future, you keep my name out of your childish bullshit.
HAVE A GREAT NIGHT!!!!

I have no idea what i supposedly said so pull the stick out of your ass.

wow very classy J... wouldnt expect any less from you.. if not me , how but other providers youve tried to slam, heck how bout even Seth? How you about you just not worry about what anybody else says and take care of yourself. So what seth has some negative things to say to you?? You've been arguing with him since JULY. The best thing you can do is build a bridge and get the hell over it. STICKS N STONES J STICKS AND STONES. For someone who is 30 or older I really expected a little more class and maturity... Youre not in high school anymore its time to grow up.

And PS even if you DIDNT say anything about me I still stand on my previous statement. You really need to get a sudden attack of maturity. The sad part is I was kind of excited when you popped up in the area this year bc the guys in Iowa and NE deserve beautiful classy top notch providers and I thought you could be one of them. But all this stupid internet bashing is what I did for shits and giggle when I was 14 years old. This is your business and livelyhood and even if some guys thing you are great, alot of guys read your garbage and aren't impressed at all. And if you would think before you typed or just let it go all together, you wouldnt have to post on BP everyday bc your clientel would already be there waiting for you. I really hope you learn to change your ways. You can be alot better than what you are now. Ohh an PSS just bc you have reviews in 3 places that happen to be in the Midwest South, and East coast doesnt mean your "national reviewed" It just means those places are on opposite ends of the country! Enjoy your weekend!!

Personally, I love it that Jenessa defends herself from the constant attacks she receives. I mean for fuck sake the girl posted on how to get a hold of her because some gentlemen were having a hard time getting through to her. Even some of us who have seen her sometimes find it difficult as well but she addressed that. But of course it couldn't be left alone and once again she is attacked trying to answer a question and now it blows up. I am sure that those who have it out for her are loving that a simple post designed to help those who are trying to meet with her has blown up into such a shit storm. I've said it before and I'll say it again. It's just fucking. Why the hell some people get so worked up about it blows me away. And speaking of blowing me away, I've seen both Kay and Jenessa and they are both tops in my book, neither of which an old fart like me could handle. I gotta go now cause all this talk about Kay and Jenessa has me harder then Chinese arithmetic.

That all the Capt Savaho's would come rescue poor little Janessa, no offense fellas, she talked trash about other providers and she does not answer her phone most the time, but she is the first to be one here ridiculing others who do the same.
Let her fight her own battles!