Fellow Hobbyist/Providers is this a case of profiling or am I over reacting?

wellendowed1911's Avatar
Ok I responded to an ad this morning from this provider: http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=52473 Now her main ad mentions clearly that she's GFE: http://erika-aimerie.escort-site.com/services.phtml
Now before I began this provider was called out by another provider for stealing pictures: http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=39908
I took all that in consideration but still wanted to book a session based on her specials she has going for the weekend. The special also mentioned that she travels to greece for ane xtra 100 dollars - ok cool nothing wrong there. Now I generally ask providers what there definition of GFE includes because it's apparent that people have different views of GFE- Ericka pm'ed me back and said she's not 100% GFE because she doesn't do BBBJ but everything else is on the menu. Ok cool- at least she was being honest. Now any provider can tell from my handle what I am actually working with so whenever a Provider offers Greek- I always inform that I am larger and thicker than average and would it be a problem? To be honest there are a lot of providers who I have been with who offer Greek, but politely decline my offer based on my size and I totally get it- not every provider who offers greek wants a 10 inch thick pole in them anally so my feelings are not hurt.
however, it gets real interesting because I tell Ericka that I am large and thick and then she pm's me back saying Greek is off the table and not an option but get this she said I will have to pay an extra 50 dollars because of my size!!! WTF!!!! I thought it was a typo or I misinterpeted and I asked her to explain and again she said sorry many are not as blessed and that it will cost an extra 50 for the regular session.
I personally think that's total bullshit. Yes, I know providers can make any rated at their discretion they like, but I never had a provider tell me it's going to cost you more because you got a 10 inch dick- now for anal i can understand them refusing but gee whiz! I declined to pay and told her my feelings and again she responded that it wasn't an upsell but others are not as blessed.
So I am wondering if big dick guys have to pay an extra 50 for her service do small guys get a discount??? why the double standard??? I promise you every provider who I have been with I NEVER have tried to physically hurt them- during all my sessions if I see the lady may have problems with my size I always tell her:" lt me know if it's hurting you.." And every girl that I been will tell you that I am respectful and not out to tear them up.
Are there any providers who have a size rule(penis) who charge an extra fee for wellendowed clients?
Are there any hobbyist who had a provider charge them extra for their package or any similar issues? I guess it's not always a gift to have a Large Penis!!!
Dude...! This is a feckin ad. Take it to the BFE provider section!

Kidding!

In all honesty, I feel your pain. I've been turned down before by a few providers because they heard I was packin' as well. Meh...plenty of fish out there. The only thing I can't get often is Greek. I usually try hypnosis on 'em and it does the trick.
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  • jfred
  • 05-23-2010, 06:21 PM
I don't know, man.

My own research leads me to believe that you're gonna "hit bottom" on any woman in vaginal intercourse. I read your, "I am gentle" disclaimer, and I believe you. But with a first time partner there's a pretty good chance you're gonna jab her in the cervix a couple times just to read her depth (and that's if you're being careful). It's gonna hurt, and not all women find that pain sexually stimulating.

I think your gal handled the PR part of her job abysmally with her hysterical reply. At the same time, if I agreed to do a physical job for you for a certain rate, and then was given relevant info that let me know that conditions were such that there might be pain -- I'd add the premium, too.

There are ladies out there, however, who want to grind down on that big ol' thing. You need to shop for someone who would consider a discount because of your size.
Juan Pablo de Marco's Avatar
hey everybody... wellendowed1911 has a big dick!!! or so he says.

JPdM
Yeah I get that treatment so much (regarding greece) that I stopped asking. but to upsell on regular service is kinda cheezy and is a reflection of a rookie and not a true proffesional. Hey maybe she feels like after taking a pounding she won't be able to see any more clients that day. Whatever, she is a rookie and bad news spreads much quicker than good she's losing out on the cash.
Maybe she should put that in her ad's; 7 and under 150 7 and over 200 LOL.
lionheart's Avatar
I understand where you're coming from, but at least she let you know up front. It could have been worse...she could have sprung that on you after you were already there for the session. At least this way you have the choice whether to see her or not.
Randall Creed's Avatar
hey everybody... wellendowed1911 has a big dick!!! or so he says.

JPdM Originally Posted by Juan Pablo de Marco
+1........errr, 10 in this case.

Give her a break. She doesn't want a huge dick in her ass, and I doubt $50 will make up for any discomfort or potentially lasting medical issues she may have to put up with.

There's always a porn career to consider.
  • chug1
  • 05-23-2010, 09:04 PM
Hmmm shes just a rookie that doesnt wanna get drilled . LOL jk
I reserve the whole day for the "thicker" clients. Recovery times vary.....

Well she was honest......and you didn't have to waste your gas driving over.
Hawkeye9's Avatar
Like I said before elseware. Car washes charge more for the big trucks to wash. Parking lots charge more to park your big truck in their lot.
same principle!!

Takes up more space and energy!! AVERAGE IS ALWAYS BEST!!
Hawkeye9's Avatar
I meant AVERAGE +2
LazurusLong's Avatar
Maybe it is time for another forum?

My dick is so big I can't get Greek very often?
stevesanderson's Avatar
If she is going to charge an extra $50 for bigger guys, that would imply that she discounts $50 for guys with tiny dicks like me. I doubt she is doing that. Thanks for the info.
PODarkness's Avatar
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Now, Why can't I find any providers that do anal?
wellendowed1911's Avatar
Hmmm shes just a rookie that doesnt wanna get drilled . LOL jk Originally Posted by chug1
Thanks Chug and honestly I believe it was a scam based on the fact that her last message to me she told me that she's not just going to fuck for 100 dollars- her words paraphrased. However, I responded that she posted the "special" for 100 dollars and it wasn't like I was low balling her- when I asked her to respond to the questionj of why she would say that she's just not going to fuck for 100 dollars but place an AD for 100 dollar special she had no response which made me believe by her own admittance that it was a slick attempt at an upsell.