I know this has been discussed to death already, lols.
But, I guess I have been thinking about things purely bc I am back on this crazy ride, and it's not something I ever thought I would come back to, let alone, get into, in the first place.
My first time: I started 8 years ago (holy shit). I had another lady to guide me, but was still nervous as hell, of course.
He was actually a very sweet guy. I think I was shaking for most of the session, ha. (I told him he was my first, he tipped me generously at the end. Later, I realized I should have used that line more often, ha.)
He ended up becoming one of my semi-regular clients for a while.
All in all, it was a pretty perfect first time, and couldn't have asked for better. Which is funny, bc my real first time (cherry pop) was no where near as awesome, lols.