Is it like pizza or a blow job? You know, even the shitty ones are still good? Or is there some technique that you prefer that is what brings you to climax?
Personally, my technique is as follows.
- I start slow, never with the pussy. Generally, it's DFK because I'm into the whole GFE thing. I like to kiss necks, and barely touch the nipples, to where it almost tickles. I give lots of massages and kisses all over the body to rev the engine.
- When its time to go down, I generally, spread my lover's legs wide, and I start kissing her inner thigh as I massage. I wrap my hands behind her waste and massage her ass and her lower back under her.
- My hands slowly pet the inside of her legs, slowly moving toward the promised land.
- I gently touch the outer lips as a tease. I alternate massaging her legs and teasing her labia.
- Then its time to go in. I normally start by light kissing directly on the vagina. I use a little tongue. I suck on the labia and pull them a little bit. I piss her pubic area above the pussy, and I work my way down.
- I generally don't stick my tongue in, but I will if she's not wet.
- Like many, I use the alphabet/random character technique on her clit, spelling random shit that pops into my head.
- I suck on the clit.
- I'll penetrate with my fingers. Depending on the feedback I'm getting from body language, I may or may not continue to do this. Sometimes I go for g-spot massage. Sometimes I penetrate the ass too. Sometimes I trace the leg. It's all in the feedback.
- I alternate between the last several techniques. After I'm getting the language that she wants to get off, then I pick whichever of the above techniques made her moan and thrust to the hardest and start doing that one exclusively, with any variations I think will make her cum hard.
- Then I use that technique to push her to climax.
- As she comes, I slow down, and generally end with very light clit and labia sucking.
That's my road map. Tell me what I can do to make it better and make you ladies cum harder.
