Provider calling clients?

Has it gotten common for a provider to contact a client? I met a girl a couple weekends ago and she's texted me twice now. First time I told her I'd be in touch when I was ready to meet again, and that was only a couple days after we first met. Now a week and a half later I'm hearing from her again. I'm reminding her I'll contact her when I'm ready and telling her I don't do this often. I've only been contacted once before and she took "I'll contact you when I'm ready" and left it at that. I don't want to be rude or mean, but I thought that generally wasn't done unless someone was a frequent regular or something.

Only once, long ago (well, sort of). My ATF asked me if she could call me if she was feeling particularly horny. The general rules was if she called me, session was at no cost (although I had to provide location). When I called, normal donation applied. She didn't do it often, but my day brightened every time she did. Man I miss that woman.

In my book , a provider phone calling is not cool, but i dont mind a text from her. One of my regulars texts when she has a dire need for cash, about every other week, and sometimes her texts really turn me on ! She needs daddy to feed her!

Sadly that's been more prominent as newer girls enter the fray, especially ones who additionally offer content, so they want to send you updates so maybe you'll subscribe to their onlyfans (or in the case of one provider, just paypal them money and THEN you can see what content they want to offer you... LOL).

You just need to be clear. VERY clear in some cases.

Sometimes, especially if the girl is in a "really need money" (and we know what for sometimes) state, she gets frustrated or angry when you are blunt about it, but if you don't you'll just keep getting the shakedown attempts. A nameless provider won't see me anymore because they kept texting me for rent money (forgetting she had asked for rent money for three solid weeks - multiple times a week), and I had to let her know that her financial needs were not a sexual turn on for me... and when I wanted to roleplay being her ATM, I'd get back to her. Pissed her off... Meh. More fish in the sea.

The late Margana would do that to me.

Perhaps she's just really into you dude lol.

Sadly that's been more prominent as newer girls enter the fray, especially ones who additionally offer content, so they want to send you updates so maybe you'll subscribe to their onlyfans (or in the case of one provider, just paypal them money and THEN you can see what content they want to offer you... LOL).

You just need to be clear. VERY clear in some cases.

Sometimes, especially if the girl is in a "really need money" (and we know what for sometimes) state, she gets frustrated or angry when you are blunt about it, but if you don't you'll just keep getting the shakedown attempts. A nameless provider won't see me anymore because they kept texting me for rent money (forgetting she had asked for rent money for three solid weeks - multiple times a week), and I had to let her know that her financial needs were not a sexual turn on for me... and when I wanted to roleplay being her ATM, I'd get back to her. Pissed her off... Meh. More fish in the sea. Originally Posted by JackJohnson

Well said, and lol.

The late Margana would do that to me. Originally Posted by ks2ny

When did she pass?

Sadly June 24th 2019 32 years old. Rest in peace sweetheart

Sadly that's been more prominent as newer girls enter the fray, especially ones who additionally offer content, so they want to send you updates so maybe you'll subscribe to their onlyfans (or in the case of one provider, just paypal them money and THEN you can see what content they want to offer you... LOL).

You just need to be clear. VERY clear in some cases.

Sometimes, especially if the girl is in a "really need money" (and we know what for sometimes) state, she gets frustrated or angry when you are blunt about it, but if you don't you'll just keep getting the shakedown attempts. A nameless provider won't see me anymore because they kept texting me for rent money (forgetting she had asked for rent money for three solid weeks - multiple times a week), and I had to let her know that her financial needs were not a sexual turn on for me... and when I wanted to roleplay being her ATM, I'd get back to her. Pissed her off... Meh. More fish in the sea. Originally Posted by JackJohnson

Been there done that thinking probably with the same one your talking about.