Choking

I had an unusual experience recently. While deep in the heat of passion, the young lady grabbed my hands and placed them on her neck. I was rubbing her neck till she asked me to squeeze harder. I was a little surprised but I did has she asked. The encounter moved up to a whole different level. She lit up and to tell you the true, so did I. I had done this before a few years back but this was more intense. It was one of those unbelievable hot passionate sessions and it was awesome!!

I did a search and I read the thread title, "Sensual Asphyxiation", but it was too old to post on. So I like to bring up the subject again.

Ladies, have you done this to a few of us guys before or do you just hope the guy would do it to you?

It's hot, but it is dangerous. I prefer more just having my lover's hands on my neck and only the slightest of slight pressure. I'm more into the psychological, giving of control aspect of the act then the physical sensation.

In Another Realm, we don't have to follow those 30 day rules. Besides, that is mainly for reviews anyway.

So if you wish to reintroduce that old topic, just do it and I won't say a thing ... and neither will my compadre, Kohana.

I can either merge the two together or we can just continue with the new one here.

I'm easy!

Hugs,
Elisabeth

a safe alternative is to just "choke" one side of her neck so that it's not a complete choking of air and/or blood supply. like olivia said, it's often the psychological aspects and not the physical aspects that stimulate and provide pleasure.

just be damn sure of safe words or motions because you can go over the edge very quickly, and it's an edge you dont want to go over.

It is the way you do it. Not done for stopping air. It is however done to stop blood flow leaving a little bit to go past. If done right it is amazing to the person being choked.

My SB loves it and the one before that loved it as well.

A much safer way is known as GOM or HOM for glove over mouth or hand over mouth. Rather than choke the neck, block the nasal passages and mouth. Same effect, much less risk of a crushed windpipe.

That being said, it can be extremely dangerous in people with high blood pressure, who have a history of strokes or heart disease, are on blood thinners, and I wouldn't recommend it with Viagra or Cialis either as they can cause complications and increase the likelihood of passing out.

Still, a fun fetish that on a light level can be done quite safely, as long as you aren't trying to make someone pass out.

My SO loves to be choked to the point of near asphyxia and she's not the first. It scared the living crap out me of the first time because it's against my nature to hurt a woman, but after may times of practice I've learned just how long each of them could take it and with what pressure. I ALWAYS err on the side of too little and too short because they will often grab my hand back. None of them liked their mouth or nose covered. For them it was also about the control and squeezing of their neck.

I've had several providers insist I do it as well --- I play realy careful there because I do not know them as well or their tolerance. More rough play than actual choking.

As always, play safe.

Isn't that how David Carradine went out?

I believe Dave did the self asphixiation while mastubating kinda thing. Very dangerous as those folks who practice that are usually alone and your knot tying skills have zero room for error. Highly erotic but... Didn't get my merit badge in knots so I hold my breath while I rub one out lol.

As my interest increased to find alternative ways to enhance my passion, I've been exploring "another realm". Recently, a gentleman requested for me to lightly wrap my legs around his neck and face and slightly suffocate him.
I must say this is something I enjoy.

It's hot, but it is dangerous. I prefer more just having my lover's hands on my neck and only the slightest of slight pressure. I'm more into the psychological, giving of control aspect of the act then the physical sensation. Originally Posted by OliviaHoward

I agree it can be dangerous. Both parties have to be in agreement, I like to do it but only with providers I trust.

As my interest increased to find alternative ways to enhance my passion, I've been exploring "another realm". Recently, a gentleman requested for me to lightly wrap my legs around his neck and face and slightly suffocate him.
I must say this is something I enjoy. Originally Posted by CarmelaLeal

I've been exploring too..... I think I found a new one....I love to watch you read (showcase pic).

It is the way you do it. Not done for stopping air. It is however done to stop blood flow leaving a little bit to go past. If done right it is amazing to the person being choked.

My SB loves it and the one before that loved it as well. Originally Posted by Gotyour6

Decreasing the blood flow to the brain would give the affect of asphyxiation.

So is it something all women think about experiencing?
(Excluding some raped women)

What is the best way to initiate? The OP's fantasy is something I would love to experience.

It is the way you do it. Not done for stopping air. It is however done to stop blood flow leaving a little bit to go past. If done right it is amazing to the person being choked.

[/Decreasing the blood flow to the brain would give the affect of asphyxiation

I see two ladies who like this. I was hesitant to do it at first but gradually learned how to cut off the "right" amount of blood flow. Both ladies often O when I do it.
I also started letting them do it to me, and it's quite a rush. Doing it simultaneously is also very intense; I'm sure it must look like two lovers trying to kill each other lol.

Has been my experience first to find out if your partner enjoys this simply lay your open hand across the front of her neck, then gauge her reaction.

I've found that putting 0% pressure on windpipe and slowly applying pressure with thumb on one side and a finger on the other (on the jugular veins ) as her passion increases produces best results.

Thing is you can't loose yourself on the moment. But I am type of person that gets off to my partner getting off.

My wife has serious affliction to anything blocking her breathing(even the hand in front of her face). Yet prefers this to any and everything we do, even to the point of passing out.

Since I learned this technique I have yet to find a partner who doesn't get off to it. But that may be due to type of woman I'm attracted to.

Erotic beyond belief but as was stated early on...hot, but dangerous...I agree with the gloves over mouth and nose or being smothered by a shapely ass safest way to go...However, back into the danger zone...plastic bag over the head..crazy dangerous but a thrashing good turn on..make sure you set up a tapping signal/hand signal...for release. Death can harsh the eroticism.