Unique Carpenter good point you make..
Deep, lol, and good. I think many many people these days hide ( somewhat ) behind
B O T H~ personas...although I hope we can be more free IN BOTH ! ESPECIALLY FANTASY OR FETISH PLAY. WE CAN OPEN UP THE "DIRTY" SIDE OF US OR FANTASY THAT WE LONG TO EXPERIENCE!
ALTHOUGH SOME OF US try to live a very genuine or authentic life in real life, where we try to practice honesty, as much as possible?
Genuine behavior, genuine friendships, less games etc. Although Im far from perfect. I still have a long way to go, or a lot to learn. I will never have it all figured out.
ha. ( if this didnt make any sense, sorry, i need coffee. :/ )
) lol.
I look at someone in the grocery store or my neighbor....a few doors down, and think, I bet he's sexy AS F@#$ in bed! A Dominant/ Dom in bed too! ( YOU MALE SUBS ARE SEXY AS HELL TOOO! ) But its so funny. Sometimes you get it all wrong in your head.... sometimes its the Shy quiet ones who are the best "Doms" and the corporate powerful types who have lots of authority at work, love to let go, be free in the bedroom and let the woman DOM THE F#$% out of THEM! ONLY SOME OF THE CASES. Every man and woman is different, OF COURSE! 
