Newbie in Iowa looking for guidance


As the title mentions Iím a naive and curious 50 year old guy just starting in the lifestyle. Iíve reached out to a couple providers and have not received any responses. Iíve been polite, provided the timeframe (date, time window, duration, location) and preferred encounter type (GFE) but end up without any responses. Any advise? Iím trying to avoid STGís and stay with TER, P411 and of course this site reviewed providers as Iím terrified of 1. Legal troubles 2. Getting scammed/bait switched/robbed and 3. Wanting a legit positive encounter for everyone. Any guidance is appreciated.

OliviaAllenDSM's Avatar
Much better information to be found on

Here's the link to the client guide
Thank you
Unique_Carpenter's Avatar
Simply do not expect responses. If you get one great.
Not using burner.
Contacting well ahead of time.