communication

im having a tough time communicating. im limited with just pm right up to an appt. most want to text or call any suggestions

Perhaps get a dedicated hobby burner phone

If you're limited in communicating with only PM you'll have a hard time getting directions, and notifying the girl when you've arrived. I know of an app you can download that uses your regular phone number but doesn't save the text or call logs in any server so if you're someone who has an extra set of eyes on your communication you dont have to worry that your correspondence is visible. If that's your issue then just download Signal. Or just download Google voice and opt out of call forwarding feature just have the calls ring through to the app. That's a simpler fix than buying a whole new phone.