Big difference between a Hobbyist (my type of guy) and an Impulsivist (bp quickie type)

I am so glad there is a thread designed for the Quality over quantity type.

As a seasoned upscale elite provider I have always been badgered about rates and my reply has always been, "Maybe I'm not your girl honey." And I probably wanted to say some meaner things but I don't. Truthfully men should know whats out of their budget. Its not fun when your waiting for someone to donate and they look like their about to sit in a dentist chair. You are supposed to leave your worries at the door like I do. Care free, no obligations after the white envelope is donated. So why prolong your bliss, the minute you walk in its only respectful to be time conscious. Most real upscale companions are low volume so its not like their in a rush, so dont waste your own time... lol Im cleaning you up and helping you put your pants up and your jacket, wallet, cell phone and shoes will be in my hand once you zip up your pants we're on the way to the door. Its like someone ate McDonalds all the time, saves their money, then walks in Ruth Chris and ask for a dollar menu.

ok I'm done going off....

Now this part is specifically for the upper echelon men.

If a true courtesan hosted at a motel 6... the service, not the services, will still depict her as such. Its the level of connection. The effort the provider gives to show you she is there for you. Its the body and the amount of time (or money) she has put into her body for your exquisite indulgence. Now I understand there are a few phonies running around, easy spotted... if you are a true VIP hobbyist you'll check reviews first. Then her articulation and vocabulary should second the reviews. Manners and dress and lingerie attire third.

I love enjoying wealthy men... Should that really be a crime? I love to travel, I only drink champagne or wine because I like it.. not because I'm trying to keep up with the Kardashians or reenact a hip hop video, its just the way I was raised I'm a Cali girl and its just my personal preference.

At first impressions, people tend to think I'm arrogant. Then they soon learn I'm a humble passionate spoiled nomadic gorgeous genius with a luxury life addiction... but hey.. its better than having a drug addiction and as long as my LuXXX men treat me well and spoil me, they get treated so well.

A well-butted woman like you is free to pick her price point and business model and the market will decide. Some guys view non-negotiable rates as a challenge and think the hobby is like an oriental bazaar where haggling is a time honored art. Others are just cheap sob's who have no respect for "hookers" (their term, not mine) and
will try to bargain just to prove their point of view.

A hugely prolific poster on this board swears he never turns over the donation until after the session. How do you deal with that kind of hobbyist if everything else is cool?

Oops. A double post is not twice the wisdom. My pardons.

Damn, I didn't know I was that drunk but after reading these posts I must be.

I either get the donation or you can leave. There will be none of this "after the session" bullshit. That's a quick way to get scammed. And hagglers get put on a no see list by me. No exceptions. It's rude and disrespectful.

nothing wrong with having standards and not deviating from them

there are providers for every type of client, but i have heard your same complaints from many of the top providers. seems many are going to a no review policy and don't want to deal with the career hobbyist types. too much blackmailing for good reviews, haggling, self entitlement. once upon a time newbies were the kiss of death, and now it seems the top girls prefer them because they not only grade easier in reviews, they tend to be so nervous the provider can wallk all over them. not that you should or everyone does, but it happens. i would have to believe that a guy screened through real name and work info would be less likely to get stupid on a girl. what tupe of recourse does a provider have if she only gets a guy' handle and refs? blacklist him? BFD. he can change his handle an start all over again.

I am so glad there is a thread designed for the Quality over quantity type.

As a seasoned upscale elite provider I have always been badgered about rates and my reply has always been, "Maybe I'm not your girl honey." And I probably wanted to say some meaner things but I don't. Truthfully men should know whats out of their budget. Its not fun when your waiting for someone to donate and they look like their about to sit in a dentist chair. You are supposed to leave your worries at the door like I do. Care free, no obligations after the white envelope is donated. So why prolong your bliss, the minute you walk in its only respectful to be time conscious. Most real upscale companions are low volume so its not like their in a rush, so dont waste your own time... lol Im cleaning you up and helping you put your pants up and your jacket, wallet, cell phone and shoes will be in my hand once you zip up your pants we're on the way to the door. Its like someone ate McDonalds all the time, saves their money, then walks in Ruth Chris and ask for a dollar menu.

ok I'm done going off....

Now this part is specifically for the upper echelon men.

If a true courtesan hosted at a motel 6... the service, not the services, will still depict her as such. Its the level of connection. The effort the provider gives to show you she is there for you. Its the body and the amount of time (or money) she has put into her body for your exquisite indulgence. Now I understand there are a few phonies running around, easy spotted... if you are a true VIP hobbyist you'll check reviews first. Then her articulation and vocabulary should second the reviews. Manners and dress and lingerie attire third.

I love enjoying wealthy men... Should that really be a crime? I love to travel, I only drink champagne or wine because I like it.. not because I'm trying to keep up with the Kardashians or reenact a hip hop video, its just the way I was raised I'm a Cali girl and its just my personal preference.

At first impressions, people tend to think I'm arrogant. Then they soon learn I'm a humble passionate spoiled nomadic gorgeous genius with a luxury life addiction... but hey.. its better than having a drug addiction and as long as my LuXXX men treat me well and spoil me, they get treated so well.

Originally Posted by Bella Jesime

Personally I don't mind paying upwards of $1,000 an hour but I expect the small talk to be kept to a bare minimum as this is after all a business not some friendly meet and greet at the local tavern.

But also true VIP providers are in that hourly range and never offer any type of special as they will never degrade themselves by saying a 3 hour "special" is 2,400 vs 3,000. The word "special" when dealing with rates is not in a true VIP providers vocabulary. Only is in their vocabulary when "treating" the client. Nor will they ever offer less than an hour.

And as for wine. If you get a chance taste the 1961 Petrus.. Best French first growth I have ever had the pleasure of drinking.

I believe that a true GFE is about developing a true sense of intimacy and connection and that can rarely be done in a short period of time, so we encourage meetings of 2 hours in the beginning to help build a bond.

I also believe that companions should be low volume in order to maintain that freshness and energy, as well as sanity, that is so necessary to give a truly unique experience.

I also believe in low quantity.
I saw a lady once that we were on a one hour appointment that lasted 5.
We talked the first 3.
We laughed and touched and drank the next 2.
The last 1 we entangled.
I will never forget her. Ever.

It's very important to screen properly. Getting a handle and checking references does not complete the screening process. I always make sure I have a legal name and check IDs at the door. My safety is very important to me and I feel my concern for safety alludes to my professionalism.

It's very important to screen properly. Getting a handle and checking references does not complete the screening process. I always make sure I have a legal name and check IDs at the door. My safety is very important to me and I feel my concern for safety alludes to my professionalism. Originally Posted by stellafawn

And a legal ID is very easy to fake with a made up hobby name. I did that a long time ago and still use it because one may think they have my "legal name" yet never will.

Where did this thread go?

A hugely prolific poster on this board swears he never turns over the donation until after the session. How do you deal with that kind of hobbyist if everything else is cool? Originally Posted by awl4knot

I know a guy like that. After reviewing the OP'S show case, the guy were thinking about would never even contact a lady with several different hair colors depicted in her show case and especially what he would see in picture #21. Holding dollars bills, freaky nails with shots of other strippers. Huh....

As a seasoned upscale elite provider I have always been badgered about rates and my reply has always been, Originally Posted by Bella Jesime

Your Last 3 reviews are at $150, $200 and $300 and include 2 half hour sessions.

Honey.... Help me understand where that is upscale or elite please?

I'm new to all this "Pussy is worth more that $75 a pop" attitude and trying to understand...