Could LE be on Sugar Dating Sites? Dangers of SD Women.

landon's Avatar
While I have met women off SA, I have wondered if LE could set up a sting there. Many of the women will solicit what my "allowance" or contribution will be. I am reluctant to make offers or bids with someone I have not met in person. Some want outrageous amounts, etc. or have me come pick them up in a sorta bad part of town.

I consider women off SD sites a class of provider and do not drink the KoolAid. allowance crap. There was a thread on this but seems to have been deleted.

I have met a number of them some wanting motel date on first meeting, some deciding hookup after a get to know dinner Contributions were on a per session basis. Many of them do not post a full body photo and I recommend against meeting one like that.. But to talk money with a someone I have not met in person or talked on phone seems risky. Others say they are 18 and could be minors. Whats to prevent LE from infiltrating these sites like BP?

Another danger of these sites is women from them can be very agreeable to BB and a man can be easily sucked into this, especially if the woman says she has been fixed. It has been hard for me to resist but not being a roulette player go covered. Getting one PG wb no party either.

Thoughts?
Fishpie's Avatar
Free income. If the LEO agency can't profit from it they don't waste resources. Since this would be under the Vice Division, is the human trafficking running rampant on those sites? You should base your decision to continue or to stop based on that one singular threat. They got to have outside groups running smear campaigns to get funding and then that funding goes to shit that they don't need. I'm sure you watched How To Catch a Predator right? Noticed how it was a 3rd party non for profit group always doing the baiting and what not? They did all the work and then when it was time to make the arrests they would call the cops. That was a good pay day for all agencies involved.

Look at jaywalking, do they profit off of that? They do if they fine you but the time and resources are greater than the pay out so the priority level is real low on that.
Gave SA a quick try and canceled my account within 2 weeks without even meeting a single potential SB. Why? These SB's expectations are like they wanna get a Richard Gere and hit the jackpot like Pretty Woman.

I would love to setup a SB relationship but getting it right is like doing a job interview that takes more effort than its worth (at least for me).

Don't get me wrong, getting into new eccie provider's list has not been easier either, and I can't blame the indies cuz all the action in Houston lately, but for me it's easier to go to my regular ATF and taste a new eccie reviewed jewel from time to time than trying to weed out tons of SBs with overly unrealistic expectations.
It generally takes me maybe 4 months to find a girl I like from SA who is not a sugar coated escort. Then it is worthwhile for another 6 months until she decides she wants to change paths.

On the other hand, met a girl in Houston in January, it was maybe 3 days from chatting to fucking, and it ended as a nightmare.....she was effectively homeless and I was far too kind and she ended up at my apartment plus a puppy and nowhere to go. I had to get another gf to visit to get rid of her.

Even when she got back to Alabama she was asking me for her car note.
  • LaTex
  • 03-21-2016, 02:21 PM
Gave SA a quick try and canceled my account within 2 weeks without even meeting a single potential SB. Why? These SB's expectations are like they wanna get a Richard Gere and hit the jackpot like Pretty Woman.

I would love to setup a SB relationship but getting it right is like doing a job interview that takes more effort than its worth (at least for me).

Don't get me wrong, getting into new eccie provider's list has not been easier either, and I can't blame the indies cuz all the action in Houston lately, but for me it's easier to go to my regular ATF and taste a new eccie reviewed jewel from time to time than trying to weed out tons of SBs with overly unrealistic expectations. Originally Posted by xevious1
Amen Bro
HoustonDan's Avatar
Landon, don't bring your dumb ass bullshit perspective on SB/SD here. You spewed enough of that shit on the SB forum and we didn't take it there. You have zero to offer because you don't understand what a true arrangement is. So please stop acting like you do.

Your post isn't even worth considering.
mirandalee's Avatar
I have been on SD sites and its hard to trust anyone it goes both ways. Had a guy say he will give $2000 a month allowance but not til the end of the month because he wanted to make sure I don't scam him after he gives me the cash, but yet he scamed me and changed his number. So hell no if I ever get another SD money is first its almost like being with an escort same shit money exchanging for benefits. I think the only way the SD thing will work is to get to know each other for awhile first.
So hell no if I ever get another SD money is first its almost like being with an escort same shit money exchanging for benefits. I think the only way the SD thing will work is to get to know each other for awhile first. Originally Posted by mirandalee
Strangely enough you make a lot of sense. Many people (guys and girls) don't understand the difference between an escort and a friend. So if a girl has a pay-per-meet policy I am out. But if a girl wants to get to know me over two or three dates, and then lets nature take its course, then I am in, hell I am in.
TheCat'sMeow's Avatar
Strangely enough you make a lot of sense. Many people (guys and girls) don't understand the difference between an escort and a friend. So if a girl has a pay-per-meet policy I am out. But if a girl wants to get to know me over two or three dates, and then lets nature take its course, then I am in, hell I am in. Originally Posted by essence
FWBs don't require going on dates,,,All you need is a way to contact and a place to play. Most FWBs today are internet based.
Fishpie's Avatar
Landon, don't bring your dumb ass bullshit perspective on SB/SD here. You spewed enough of that shit on the SB forum and we didn't take it there. You have zero to offer because you don't understand what a true arrangement is. So please stop acting like you do.

Your post isn't even worth considering. Originally Posted by HoustonDan
ECCIE2NDAVE's Avatar
yes
mirandalee's Avatar
That's what I mean it takes time to get to know a person gotta see if there is chemistry and etc. If the girl just wanna rush things and demands money for time minus just be with an escort lol... But she has to put time into it... Most important is trust, communication, and honest just like a relationship lol...
Slitlikr's Avatar
This is not an alert.
lol was her name Brook? Skinny and no titties
sexy.princess's Avatar
I have been on SD sites and its hard to trust anyone it goes both ways. Had a guy say he will give $2000 a month allowance but not til the end of the month because he wanted to make sure I don't scam him after he gives me the cash, but yet he scamed me and changed his number. So hell no if I ever get another SD money is first its almost like being with an escort same shit money exchanging for benefits. I think the only way the SD thing will work is to get to know each other for awhile first. Originally Posted by mirandalee
Agree. I've been scammed on these sites also. Also time consuming to find the "right" person. It is a relationship that will be going on for some time if planned that way and things work out.